"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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Girls want guys to give their numbers? that's what this one chick says

sharpshooter

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we had an argument, she was basically arguing that if a guy gave her number she WOULD call them 99 percent of the time. I was telling her that most girls WOULD NOT call at all if a guy just made a cold approach and handed her his number, without getting one in return.

who agrees, disagrees?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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A "qualified" woman will call you.
 

Walk this Way

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A few days ago I exchanged numbers with a girl, but "memorized" her number like an idiot just to look smooth. Well I forgot it like two minutes later. She called me today though.
 

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How does that even make a difference...Most "chicks" won't give you there number...Way to damn shy...

So the more numbers you put out...the more chances you have. You may give your number to a woman you think has "no interst" and find out she does...

The "hot" ones are the ones that get no numbers because men are afraid to approach them...

Get my drift...

JNA
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ol'BlueEyes

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You're right and your girl friend's off base Sharp.
Sounds to me like she's defending women, implying that they aren't shallow and they like to give every guy a chance.
I ain't buying it.
 
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