"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Girls vs Grown Women

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This is a post from a girl I was seeing to her friends. I hope this will help you *boys* gain some insights into the mind of a woman.

Hey ladies I am reposting this from my girl Laurey Pike. This is truth, so read it because I LOVE YOU GUYS! MAUH!

~N*****~
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Repostin this because it is knowledge....ladies, let us step up and be the God-fearing women we were designed to be. No need to chase triflin dudes when you just need to have faith that God will deliver you your man on His perfect time.

~L
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For all my girls who think "acting a fool" is cute and for my classy ladies read this. There's a time and place for everything and the older I get I realize you live and learn, sometimes you may fall in love and have to let go, but the beauty of it all is the strength you gain and assurance of knowing you will be okay! What are you a Girl or Woman?

Girls vs. Grown Women

GIRLS leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans.
GROWN WOMEN make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits in.

GIRLS want to control the man in their life.
GROWN WOMEN know that if he's truly hers, he doesn't need controlling.

GIRLS check you for not calling them.
GROWN WOMEN are too busy to realize you hadn't.


GIRLS are afraid to be alone.
GROWN WOMEN revel in it-- using it as a time for personal growth.

GIRLS ignore the good guys.
GROWN WOMEN ignore the bad guys.

GIRLS worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for a man.
GROWN WOMEN know that they are pretty and/or good enough for their God-ordained husband!

GIRLS try to monopolize all their man's time (i.e., don't want him hanging with his friends).
GROWN WOMEN realize that a lil' bit of space makes the 'together time' even more special -- and spends time with her own friends!

GIRLS think a guy crying is weak.
GROWN WOMEN offer their shoulder and a tissue.

GIRLS want to be spoiled and 'tell' their man so.
GROWN WOMEN 'show' him, make him comfortable enough to reciprocate w/o fear of losing his 'manhood', and even take time to spoil him!

GIRLS get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it.
GROWN WOMEN know that that was just one man.

GIRLS fall in love, chase aimlessly after the object of their affection, ignoring all 'signs'.
GROWN WOMEN know that sometimes the one you love doesn't always love you back -- and moves on, without bitterness.

GIRLS will read this and get an attitude.
GROWN WOMEN will read this and ask..."which one am I?" and ask God to work on them!
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Sure, Grown Women are perfect.
 
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i'm pretty sure this was written by a tittie sagging 39 year old who is tired of having men leave her for a perky breasted 23 year ol and is trying to now point out her "good points"
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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backbreaker said:
i'm pretty sure this was written by a tittie sagging 39 year old who is tired of having men leave her for a perky breasted 23 year ol and is trying to now point out her "good points"
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WRONG! If you can't handle a mature women, don't date them. There's no need to diss women trying to improve their lives.
 
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i happen to like dating older women, not THAT much older than me (i'm 24) but I am currently laying the pipe to a 32 year old on a regular basis.. but I don't believe this babble that's posted becuase I'm not a troll like you and I've actually had enough experience with women to know better
 
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backbreaker said:
i happen to like dating older women, not THAT much older than me (i'm 24) but I am currently laying the pipe to a 32 year old on a regular basis.. but I don't believe this babble that's posted becuase I'm not a troll like you and I've actually had enough experience with women to know better
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Older doesn't mean mature. The girl who wrote the post is pretty smart and mature for her age (23). Also I'm no Troll. If anyone's a troll, it's probably you. You've been here since 2002, let's see you post a pic so we can see if you're the real deal.
 
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lol, dude, do you have any ieda who I am?

calm your ego inflated ass down
 
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backbreaker said:
i'm pretty sure this was written by a tittie sagging 39 year old who is tired of having men leave her for a perky breasted 23 year ol and is trying to now point out her "good points"
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i concur.

Not that it matters, but most of my past relationships have been with ladies older than myself
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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You're an Idiot

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lol, dude, do you have any ieda who I am?
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Of course! You're a coward that can't spell. What does it matter who you are? You're fvcking pathetic if you get your sense of pride from being admired in a discussion forum. lol.
 
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Back to the original post, lol
Alot of guys here are dealing with little girls, and wondering why they are having so much trouble!

SOMETIMES THE PROBLEM ISN'T IN US! Sometimes the majestic *****-wearing ones are just as ****ed up!
 
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Good post. But the point that's being missed is that it's not about the girl/woman's age so much as her attitude. I'll take the woman with the mature (but not stodgy) attitude who's in good shape over the stuck-up little brat (whether just younger and not knowing any better or older and emotionally retarded) anytime.
 
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Older women are set in their ways and are more difficult to get along with than yonger women.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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