"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Girls vs Grown Women

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This is a post from a girl I was seeing to her friends. I hope this will help you *boys* gain some insights into the mind of a woman.

Hey ladies I am reposting this from my girl Laurey Pike. This is truth, so read it because I LOVE YOU GUYS! MAUH!

~N*****~
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Repostin this because it is knowledge....ladies, let us step up and be the God-fearing women we were designed to be. No need to chase triflin dudes when you just need to have faith that God will deliver you your man on His perfect time.

~L
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For all my girls who think "acting a fool" is cute and for my classy ladies read this. There's a time and place for everything and the older I get I realize you live and learn, sometimes you may fall in love and have to let go, but the beauty of it all is the strength you gain and assurance of knowing you will be okay! What are you a Girl or Woman?

Girls vs. Grown Women

GIRLS leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans.
GROWN WOMEN make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits in.

GIRLS want to control the man in their life.
GROWN WOMEN know that if he's truly hers, he doesn't need controlling.

GIRLS check you for not calling them.
GROWN WOMEN are too busy to realize you hadn't.


GIRLS are afraid to be alone.
GROWN WOMEN revel in it-- using it as a time for personal growth.

GIRLS ignore the good guys.
GROWN WOMEN ignore the bad guys.

GIRLS worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for a man.
GROWN WOMEN know that they are pretty and/or good enough for their God-ordained husband!

GIRLS try to monopolize all their man's time (i.e., don't want him hanging with his friends).
GROWN WOMEN realize that a lil' bit of space makes the 'together time' even more special -- and spends time with her own friends!

GIRLS think a guy crying is weak.
GROWN WOMEN offer their shoulder and a tissue.

GIRLS want to be spoiled and 'tell' their man so.
GROWN WOMEN 'show' him, make him comfortable enough to reciprocate w/o fear of losing his 'manhood', and even take time to spoil him!

GIRLS get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it.
GROWN WOMEN know that that was just one man.

GIRLS fall in love, chase aimlessly after the object of their affection, ignoring all 'signs'.
GROWN WOMEN know that sometimes the one you love doesn't always love you back -- and moves on, without bitterness.

GIRLS will read this and get an attitude.
GROWN WOMEN will read this and ask..."which one am I?" and ask God to work on them!
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sure, Grown Women are perfect.
 
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i'm pretty sure this was written by a tittie sagging 39 year old who is tired of having men leave her for a perky breasted 23 year ol and is trying to now point out her "good points"
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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backbreaker said:
i'm pretty sure this was written by a tittie sagging 39 year old who is tired of having men leave her for a perky breasted 23 year ol and is trying to now point out her "good points"
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WRONG! If you can't handle a mature women, don't date them. There's no need to diss women trying to improve their lives.
 
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i happen to like dating older women, not THAT much older than me (i'm 24) but I am currently laying the pipe to a 32 year old on a regular basis.. but I don't believe this babble that's posted becuase I'm not a troll like you and I've actually had enough experience with women to know better
 
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backbreaker said:
i happen to like dating older women, not THAT much older than me (i'm 24) but I am currently laying the pipe to a 32 year old on a regular basis.. but I don't believe this babble that's posted becuase I'm not a troll like you and I've actually had enough experience with women to know better
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Older doesn't mean mature. The girl who wrote the post is pretty smart and mature for her age (23). Also I'm no Troll. If anyone's a troll, it's probably you. You've been here since 2002, let's see you post a pic so we can see if you're the real deal.
 
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lol, dude, do you have any ieda who I am?

calm your ego inflated ass down
 
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backbreaker said:
i'm pretty sure this was written by a tittie sagging 39 year old who is tired of having men leave her for a perky breasted 23 year ol and is trying to now point out her "good points"
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i concur.

Not that it matters, but most of my past relationships have been with ladies older than myself
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You're an Idiot

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lol, dude, do you have any ieda who I am?
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Of course! You're a coward that can't spell. What does it matter who you are? You're fvcking pathetic if you get your sense of pride from being admired in a discussion forum. lol.
 
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Back to the original post, lol
Alot of guys here are dealing with little girls, and wondering why they are having so much trouble!

SOMETIMES THE PROBLEM ISN'T IN US! Sometimes the majestic *****-wearing ones are just as ****ed up!
 
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Good post. But the point that's being missed is that it's not about the girl/woman's age so much as her attitude. I'll take the woman with the mature (but not stodgy) attitude who's in good shape over the stuck-up little brat (whether just younger and not knowing any better or older and emotionally retarded) anytime.
 
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Older women are set in their ways and are more difficult to get along with than yonger women.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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