Girls view most guys like we do sarge mates

[everywomanshero]

Do you really want to know why women flake like crazy on guys with poor game and sometimes even on guys who have a fair understanding?

Close your eyes. You can't go sarging one evening because you are bsy with one of your hottest gfs. Imagine an all too eager guy friend with nothing going on gets pissed at you for not going out. If this happened a few times, you'd probably start ducking his calls and find him annoying. If you have many other sarge mates, you'd probably more or less stop returning his calls. You (assuming) haven't known him that long, and you don't really find him as valuable as the HBs you have lined up to be banged that night.

Guess what? Girls view most guys as annoying sarge mates. That's why they flake. If called on the behavior, they just disappear or say the guy is creepy. WHY? Because they are doing something that has more value to them than these clowns. Girls have a ton of clowns bugging them already, and these guys have lower value than other men/gfs/things going on.

 

[mrRuckus]

If you have many other sarge mates, you'd probably more or less stop returning his calls.

WTF is a sarge mate?

Aren't those called friends? Do you really go out with a group of guys with the intention of getting women?

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

WTF is a sarge mate?

Aren't those called friends? Do you really go out with a group of guys with the intention of getting women?

lol i was thinking the same thing....

 

[So Many Ways]

lol i was thinking the same thing....

Me too...

wtf Sarge Mate.... what the hell is that

I hang out with my boys, sometimes we holler at females, sometimes we don't.

 

[styleman]

Make this another person who does not know what the hell a sarge mate is.

 

[Duke]

OMG, a sarge-mate = a wing.

A guy who can reliably wing with you. Newsflash, most guys are AFC. They don't have game, and they will help get you blown out.

Doesn't mean they're bad people and can't make good friends. But not always the best people to sarge with.

This is a good analogy too. This is why if a girl flakes, you don't blow up at her or get all serious and present her with the "rules of your reality." You just act like it doesn't phase you (better if it REALLY doesn't) and hang out with another chick, preferably letting her know subtly that you're not gonna just sit at home and mope because she's flaking.

Then she has no negative memories she can associate with you.

 

[everywomanshero]

Yes, sarge mate == wing.

It doesn't have to be this termimology, it can be an annoying guy who wants to be friends or a guy in whatever hobbby you're active in... surely, you guys do have hobbies don't you? I hope you do, because that's one of the things that really has helped me have a larger social circle and be an interesting person.

I know it makes a lot of guys who aren't getting the success they want with women upset to hear this, but trust me most guys are annoyingly comon to women. They would rather sleep with a guy who they know probably has a lot of fires going (like me) than some boring, generic guy who doesn't have a soul and desperately wants to fit in and strives to become/stay average. The good news is you too can escape this fate. It';s worth the effort since most guys will never do this and their gfs/wives will keep "just going out to dance", meeting me, and "then it just happened".

Hey, I'm just telling what I've learned. I didn't make the rules, and I used to not get this stuff at all. This isn't a high and mighty thing, but unless you get this then you are in serious trouble with women.