“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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GIrls think im a player and i only want sex

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A couple girls this month who i could have ****ed' have told me that they got the impression that i was a player and that i only wanted sex. this is not good.

i started post this because my cousin hooked me up with a girl who is coming to new york for 2 weeks. we have talked over the phone and met twice. we made out. THe first time she though it was too soon and didn't want to kiss but did it half a$$ed any way. the second time i saw her she explained that she feels i only want sex and i explained that i don't want her to feel any preasure and im in fact not only interested in sex but that's how i am. I asked her if she trusted me and she said she is starting to. THen i told her to prove it, she kissed me and we made out for a couple minutes. Now i will meet with her at a club on the 26, she will leave on the 3rd. In other words, i need to fvck her this week. NOTE: she's a virgin.
But there's hope, we have talked about sex on the phone and it leads me to belive that theres hope if i get my mind right. when i say that, i mean it. THeres a good chance.

I need to make this chick trust me and feel horny enough to fvck. I haven't been in sosuave lately and have been operating by insticts so a lot of principles are forgotten...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by assh0le
A couple girls this month who i could have FVCKed' have told me that they got the impression that i was a player and that i only wanted sex. this is not good.

i started post this because my cousin hooked me up with a girl who is coming to new york for 2 weeks. we have talked over the phone and met twice. we made out. THe first time she though it was too soon and didn't want to kiss but did it half a$$ed any way. the second time i saw her she explained that she feels i only want sex and i explained that i don't want her to feel any preasure and im in fact not only interested in sex but that's how i am. I asked her if she trusted me and she said she is starting to. THen i told her to prove it, she kissed me and we made out for a couple minutes. Now i will meet with her at a club on the 26, she will leave on the 3rd. In other words, i need to fvck her this week. NOTE: she's a virgin.
But there's hope, we have talked about sex on the phone and it leads me to belive that theres hope if i get my mind right. when i say that, i mean it. THeres a good chance.

I need to make this chick trust me and feel horny enough to fvck. I haven't been in sosuave lately and have been operating by insticts so a lot of principles are forgotten...
pretend it's not all about sex, MAKE discussions, and lead them BEYOND sex. Still use sexy undertones like everything leads to sex, but there are other important THINGS TO DO out there.
 

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I honestly dont see a girl losing her V-card to someone she thinks is in it for sex??? Get some head though, at least.
 

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Yea we talk plenty about other sh1t...is that my attitude is sometimes overwhelmingly sexual...example...

an hour after we met, me, her and my cousin and her cousin (who date) and a 5th wheel went to mcdonalds. we were joking around and i walked out and grabbed her and told her to follow me to the grocery store. she did. I went in, bought something and stayed outside mickey D's with her separated from everybody. I told her something about she not greeting me propertly (i told her on the phone the first thing i will do when i c her is kiss her) and 1 minute later i had her held VERY tightly kissing her neck and mouth lightly. She was not embracing me overwhelmingly but she WAS allowing it. I, of course was also grabbing all sorts of interesting body parts and keep a vibe that suggested sex is next. this is was one reason why she though i only cared about sex. later on i tried to get her in a dark room, with no intentions on sex (just making out) and she thought i was trying to fvck her right there. I assured her i wasen't. This was the first meeting. When i left to kiss her good night, she was not 2 eager 2 kiss me and actually tried avoiding it.

the 2nd time i saw her she was VERY willing to kiss me after i had the "you don't have to do anything you don't want to" talk.
 

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That's why I am saying back off a bit, start being more charming, and not so gung ho!

Make her come to you, instead of dragging her in... something along the lines of stop showing so much interest in what you want from her, and than contradicting with your words... make the words contradict what you do... or even better make your mind-set say I want you... ALL OF YOU!!

It's hard for me to elaborate and put what I do into words... but you are showing too much interest, you are putting her body on a pedestal by grabbing for it too much...

haha, you are putting sex on a pedestal in her eyes...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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convince the woman that it is something special about her, kinda like A3 in the m3 model.

Also, don't look like a predator
 

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The way to a woman's pants is through her mind, I look at that as the vagaina, the physical is just acting out what her mind has felt being around you.
 

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i dont even see a problem here,

obviously shes doesnt want to look like a slut so maybe instead of being overly sexual with her (in hers or in the eyes of her friends) save all that untill you you are alone with her. all she wants with you in public is to have a good time. keep the sexuallity down to a slight undertone in public, although dont seem to repress your sexuality either!

the thing you are doing that isnt working for you here is fireing her anti slut defence, to much , too strong and too too quick!

now dont slow down, keep esculating otherwise you will crash and burn. just keep in mind that she doesnt want you or anybody els too percieve her as a sexual person! too her, its private and special! so do her the favour and fcuk her, but dont let her friends or herself think its going too be easy!:woo:
 

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Originally posted by Boner da Stoner
That's why I am saying back off a bit, start being more charming, and not so gung ho!

Make her come to you, instead of dragging her in... something along the lines of stop showing so much interest in what you want from her, and than contradicting with your words... make the words contradict what you do... or even better make your mind-set say I want you... ALL OF YOU!!

It's hard for me to elaborate and put what I do into words... but you are showing too much interest, you are putting her body on a pedestal by grabbing for it too much...

haha, you are putting sex on a pedestal in her eyes...
I concur
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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