GIrls think im a player and i only want sex

[*******]

A couple girls this month who i could have ****ed' have told me that they got the impression that i was a player and that i only wanted sex. this is not good.

i started post this because my cousin hooked me up with a girl who is coming to new york for 2 weeks. we have talked over the phone and met twice. we made out. THe first time she though it was too soon and didn't want to kiss but did it half a$$ed any way. the second time i saw her she explained that she feels i only want sex and i explained that i don't want her to feel any preasure and im in fact not only interested in sex but that's how i am. I asked her if she trusted me and she said she is starting to. THen i told her to prove it, she kissed me and we made out for a couple minutes. Now i will meet with her at a club on the 26, she will leave on the 3rd. In other words, i need to fvck her this week. NOTE: she's a virgin.
But there's hope, we have talked about sex on the phone and it leads me to belive that theres hope if i get my mind right. when i say that, i mean it. THeres a good chance.

I need to make this chick trust me and feel horny enough to fvck. I haven't been in sosuave lately and have been operating by insticts so a lot of principles are forgotten...

 

[Boner da Stoner]

Originally posted by assh0le
A couple girls this month who i could have FVCKed' have told me that they got the impression that i was a player and that i only wanted sex. this is not good.

i started post this because my cousin hooked me up with a girl who is coming to new york for 2 weeks. we have talked over the phone and met twice. we made out. THe first time she though it was too soon and didn't want to kiss but did it half a$$ed any way. the second time i saw her she explained that she feels i only want sex and i explained that i don't want her to feel any preasure and im in fact not only interested in sex but that's how i am. I asked her if she trusted me and she said she is starting to. THen i told her to prove it, she kissed me and we made out for a couple minutes. Now i will meet with her at a club on the 26, she will leave on the 3rd. In other words, i need to fvck her this week. NOTE: she's a virgin.
But there's hope, we have talked about sex on the phone and it leads me to belive that theres hope if i get my mind right. when i say that, i mean it. THeres a good chance.

I need to make this chick trust me and feel horny enough to fvck. I haven't been in sosuave lately and have been operating by insticts so a lot of principles are forgotten...

pretend it's not all about sex, MAKE discussions, and lead them BEYOND sex. Still use sexy undertones like everything leads to sex, but there are other important THINGS TO DO out there.

 

[Captain Popular]

I honestly dont see a girl losing her V-card to someone she thinks is in it for sex??? Get some head though, at least.

 

[*******]

Yea we talk plenty about other sh1t...is that my attitude is sometimes overwhelmingly sexual...example...

an hour after we met, me, her and my cousin and her cousin (who date) and a 5th wheel went to mcdonalds. we were joking around and i walked out and grabbed her and told her to follow me to the grocery store. she did. I went in, bought something and stayed outside mickey D's with her separated from everybody. I told her something about she not greeting me propertly (i told her on the phone the first thing i will do when i c her is kiss her) and 1 minute later i had her held VERY tightly kissing her neck and mouth lightly. She was not embracing me overwhelmingly but she WAS allowing it. I, of course was also grabbing all sorts of interesting body parts and keep a vibe that suggested sex is next. this is was one reason why she though i only cared about sex. later on i tried to get her in a dark room, with no intentions on sex (just making out) and she thought i was trying to fvck her right there. I assured her i wasen't. This was the first meeting. When i left to kiss her good night, she was not 2 eager 2 kiss me and actually tried avoiding it.

the 2nd time i saw her she was VERY willing to kiss me after i had the "you don't have to do anything you don't want to" talk.

 

[Boner da Stoner]

That's why I am saying back off a bit, start being more charming, and not so gung ho!

Make her come to you, instead of dragging her in... something along the lines of stop showing so much interest in what you want from her, and than contradicting with your words... make the words contradict what you do... or even better make your mind-set say I want you... ALL OF YOU!!

It's hard for me to elaborate and put what I do into words... but you are showing too much interest, you are putting her body on a pedestal by grabbing for it too much...

haha, you are putting sex on a pedestal in her eyes...

 

[Marlimus]

convince the woman that it is something special about her, kinda like A3 in the m3 model.

Also, don't look like a predator

 

[coaster]

The way to a woman's pants is through her mind, I look at that as the vagaina, the physical is just acting out what her mind has felt being around you.

 

[catch]

i dont even see a problem here,

obviously shes doesnt want to look like a slut so maybe instead of being overly sexual with her (in hers or in the eyes of her friends) save all that untill you you are alone with her. all she wants with you in public is to have a good time. keep the sexuallity down to a slight undertone in public, although dont seem to repress your sexuality either!

the thing you are doing that isnt working for you here is fireing her anti slut defence, to much , too strong and too too quick!

now dont slow down, keep esculating otherwise you will crash and burn. just keep in mind that she doesnt want you or anybody els too percieve her as a sexual person! too her, its private and special! so do her the favour and fcuk her, but dont let her friends or herself think its going too be easy!:woo:

 

[ScrewIt]

one word: foreplay

 

[oakraiderz2]

Originally posted by Boner da Stoner
That's why I am saying back off a bit, start being more charming, and not so gung ho!

Make her come to you, instead of dragging her in... something along the lines of stop showing so much interest in what you want from her, and than contradicting with your words... make the words contradict what you do... or even better make your mind-set say I want you... ALL OF YOU!!

It's hard for me to elaborate and put what I do into words... but you are showing too much interest, you are putting her body on a pedestal by grabbing for it too much...

haha, you are putting sex on a pedestal in her eyes...

I concur