"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Girls that were abused / abandoned / raped
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Also one of my old fuk buddies got abused when she was about 12, and she was nearly raped. Shes like my best friend and we totally trust each other but sometimes if im too dominate i can see she gets scared and it brings back horrible memories for her. We dont talk about it much even though we talk everyday, its just one of those things that doesnt get brought up until something catastrophic happens.
Last one i promise, this one is the one im not proud of. I went on a first date with a women, she was about 24 and i was just testing some stuff out. The fact that at 17 i got a date with a 24 year old is beyond me! Anyway, we met up and got talking about general rubbish and somehow within about 20 minutes we got onto the topic of this woman being abused by her dad when she was a kid. Then we were just walking in this wood and i just decided to kiss her, then she sucked me off in a bush there and then. I left and i havent seen her since.
Actually I guess I have one last story, its a personal one which i have only told a handful of people. Most of my friends would tell you that i am one of the most sexual people they know, but what they dont know is why. I place one of the reasons why im so sexual on the fact that i had my first sexual experience when i was ridiculously young, i was about 5-6 years old when i first had sex. (dont even ask, just trust me it happened and i tried to forget about it) and then when i was 13 i did it again, and tried to forget about it. Then i got to 14 and started to enjoy it and here we are today.
Overall, i'd say all of those girls were pretty sexual but mentally, they really need looking after. Personally, i dont seek out these women but you never know whats happened in someones past.
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What you want to look for is any way that it affects the dynamic of the relationship. For example, if she seems uncomfortable during intimacy because of it, cries at random, or even something more subtle like getting upset when you aren't around or being very possessive and controlling.
If she ever tries to use it DIRECTLY to manipulate your behavior, i.e. tries to get you to do something/not do something for her by talking about how hard her life has been and how she "deserves" something...then you need to find a way out from under her as quickly as possible.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Quoted for TRUTH. The fact that a woman tells you about it is the beginning of the manipulation not the end.squirrels said:
I've dated 3 "rape" victims. Each time I heard about the rape was when they wanted me to do something major (commit, stop seeing other girls, move in together). Each time I listened to their story and still refused to do what they wanted. Each time they broke up with me soon after and started dating soemone else. Call me cynical but this is what life has shown me.
I know a couple of girls who have actually been abused and raped and they do not broadcast it, in fact its a badge of shame for them. They don't want people to know about it. These are my experiences.