"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Girls That Wave!

johncrawford

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I have meet 3 or 4 girls at the coffee shop where I work.They also work around the area as well.I got to know some more than others.The thing is when I see them on the other side of the street for example.I JUST LOOK AT THEM.They smile then wave!

That's all of them!

Are they just being friendly,or do I have something to look forward to?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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IamtheAlphamale

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I wave at people. From the information you gave its pretty much impossible to tell. But I bet they want you :p
 

johncrawford

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IamtheAlphamale said:
I wave at people. From the information you gave its pretty much impossible to tell. But I bet they want you :p
This girl works at the local tanning shop.She has come into the coffee shop twice.I had made some small talk.i.e I see that you work at ............etc.
Made eye contact a few times through the shop window etc.

Walked past her shop on a number of occassions,but never looked in.
Even walked past her,and pretented not to see!

Hadn't seen her for a couple of weeks,appeared thou that she still remembered me!:rolleyes:
 

Tha Realnezz

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The only good thing about working retail..lol..

I like how women feel comfortable flirting with men in stores while if you mess with the girls in stores they'll call security on you..

lol,i always used to diss the ugly ones when I worked at foot locker or make comments on them to my manager..

Just balancing out that double-standard...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Fenderules

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dont spend your whole time waving man,...... you got get in there.

I dunno im just a lot for frank these days. Some girls may say im rude, but im honest and 2 the point.
 

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waving is a potential IOI, same with eye contact and a lot of other stuff. There's no way for us to know if they like you just because of this. Similarly, there's no way even for YOU to know. Just approach them and see what happens.
 

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When I run into someone I've met before, I wave at them or say what's up, and vice versa. This thread is ridiculous.
 

WRX_is_like_SEX

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Waving . . .???

. . .Its a good sign for sure . .But, what I personally find it also depends on the local culture . . When in a small town for emaple, people/girls will have a greater propensity for waving and exchanging salutations . . .

. . . . . .But as I said, its a good sign either way . .Just go 4 it!:up:
 
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