"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Girls That Wave!

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I have meet 3 or 4 girls at the coffee shop where I work.They also work around the area as well.I got to know some more than others.The thing is when I see them on the other side of the street for example.I JUST LOOK AT THEM.They smile then wave!

That's all of them!

Are they just being friendly,or do I have something to look forward to?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I wave at people. From the information you gave its pretty much impossible to tell. But I bet they want you :p
 
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IamtheAlphamale said:
I wave at people. From the information you gave its pretty much impossible to tell. But I bet they want you :p
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This girl works at the local tanning shop.She has come into the coffee shop twice.I had made some small talk.i.e I see that you work at ............etc.
Made eye contact a few times through the shop window etc.

Walked past her shop on a number of occassions,but never looked in.
Even walked past her,and pretented not to see!

Hadn't seen her for a couple of weeks,appeared thou that she still remembered me!:rolleyes:
 
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The only good thing about working retail..lol..

I like how women feel comfortable flirting with men in stores while if you mess with the girls in stores they'll call security on you..

lol,i always used to diss the ugly ones when I worked at foot locker or make comments on them to my manager..

Just balancing out that double-standard...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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dont spend your whole time waving man,...... you got get in there.

I dunno im just a lot for frank these days. Some girls may say im rude, but im honest and 2 the point.
 
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waving is a potential IOI, same with eye contact and a lot of other stuff. There's no way for us to know if they like you just because of this. Similarly, there's no way even for YOU to know. Just approach them and see what happens.
 
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When I run into someone I've met before, I wave at them or say what's up, and vice versa. This thread is ridiculous.
 
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Waving . . .???

. . .Its a good sign for sure . .But, what I personally find it also depends on the local culture . . When in a small town for emaple, people/girls will have a greater propensity for waving and exchanging salutations . . .

. . . . . .But as I said, its a good sign either way . .Just go 4 it!:up:
 
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