"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Girls that smoke pot

DonGorgon

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Jack Wealthy said:
No, they're not. That is a huge generalisation with no basis in truth. At least where I live, everyone smokes weed. Most my friends, my mums clients who are doctors, lawyers... None of them do any drugs besides alchohol and weed.

As for it being a gateway drug, the real gateway drug is alchohol. Most people who do any other drug also drink, people who smoke pot don't move up as often because it's a different culture. In fact it is more the enviroment the drugs are being taken, if people smoke weed at a friends they probably won't smoke crack, if they smoke at their dealers they are far more likely too.
i stated facts... humans who use narcotics have mental and behavioural issues FACT.. you like those issues cause you are in the culture... my point is is you are not a drug user stay away from females who use drugs... FACT
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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DonGorgon:
they are usually druggies and pot is not all they do.
This is not a “fact.” Scientifically speaking, quite literally and by no exaggeration, 99% of people who try marijuana never go onto other illicit drugs—and your anecdotal experiences are trumped by science, FYVM. This is fact. Since your experiences are anecdotal and anecdotes are not empirical, one explanation is observational bias—the people who look like druggies or hang around druggies are obvious, and the people who lead affluent socially productive lives fly under the radar and live in the closet. Frankly, I much rather be around the smell of pot than the clinks of glasses in a bar. (In fact, there is good reason to believe that once marijuana is legalized that the number of people who drink and patronize bars will noticeably decline.)
 

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I like to toke up every now and then, it really doesn't bother me if a girl does or not. I don't really have an issue with cigarettes neither.

Now, if they drink their weight in booze and are belligerent every night or do anything harder than pot, that's a dealbreaker for me.
 

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One could argue that pot and alcohol are not much different in terms of the "hard core drug" factor. BUT, like it or not, the thing that weed has against it is your girl is going to HAVE to deal with shady people to get it because as corny as it sounds, its illegal.

IMO, thats the red flag when it comes to girls smoking, they don't have the power to say, "you know what, its not important enough to me to have to run around like a shady b*tch trying to get it, just so i can get high, i'll just have a glass of wine if i want to unwind."

This is not that important when you're young, after all i wouldnt expect a 22 yo girl to think like that, and thats fine, but do you really want the mother of your kids or your grown a$$ wife running out to meet her hook up? :rolleyes:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Julius_Seizeher

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San Jose California said:
she would be more boring if she didn't smoke weed, just putting that out there
Why do you need drugs to be interesting?
 

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st_99 said:
more than once in a long while..

comments?
Do you smoke? If yes how often? (no answer necessary - making a point)

If she is smoking way more than you, than it's a problem. If the difference is small, then pot is probably not a problem.
 

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Marvin Gaye

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San Jose California said:
once again I am just putting it out there that she'd be more boring if she didn't smoke weed
Location: California
 
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