"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Girls that play guys!!!!

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A few hours ago me and a friend of mine got out with two girls from college!!! We went to a bar and started takin' a few beers with them.....theese two girls are in to us for a few weeks, givin' lots of IOI's and initiating kino with us. After a few beer we decided to go home, my friend got in the car with the girl he was interested and i got in the car with the girl i was interested. My friend and the girl was takin' too long to arive at the place me and the other girl had stoped....in the meanwhile i said to the girl:

me: they should be doin' something...so i think we could be doin' something before they arrive!!!
girl: i don't think so!!!!

then my friend arrive with his girl....after talkin' with him he said that he'd tried to kiss the girl and she refused him....the same with me and my girl!!!!


We both know that theese two girls want to hook up with us but they surely know how to play guys!!!

A few minutes ago me and my friend decided to ignore theese girl for the rest of the week!!!!

what do you guys think we should do?


ps: in my opinion i must be very direct with this girl, saying something like: stop playing games, hook up with me or get the f**k away from me!!!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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lgbs2004 said:
ps: in my opinion i must be very direct with this girl, saying something like: stop playing games, hook up with me or get the f**k away from me!!!
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I dunno....that doesn't seem very smooth. But that's just my two cents.
 
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lgbs2004 said:
After a few beer we decided to go home, my friend got in the car with the girl he was interested and i got in the car with the girl i was interested. My friend and the girl was takin' too long to arive at the place me and the other girl had stoped....in the meanwhile i said to the girl:

me: they should be doin' something...so i think we could be doin' something before they arrive!!!
girl: i don't think so!!!!

LOL. You have to be kidding me.

then my friend arrive with his girl....after talkin' with him he said that he'd tried to kiss the girl and she refused him....the same with me and my girl!!!!


We both know that theese two girls want to hook up with us but they surely know how to play guys!!!
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Did you give her $50 before you said "I think we should be doing something before they arrive". LOL.

Dude you have to engage in some foreplay before you have sex. What did you expect her to do and say? "Gee, I think I'm weak in the knees now. Since you have me a ride home I'm going to take my clothes off and screw you like Basic Instinct."
 
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DonJuan11 said:
Did you give her $50 before you said "I think we should be doing something before they arrive". LOL.

Dude you have to engage in some foreplay before you have sex. What did you expect her to do and say? "Gee, I think I'm weak in the knees now. Since you have me a ride home I'm going to take my clothes off and screw you like Basic Instinct."
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I was not talkin' about screwing her....i was bein' sarcastic with her and i don't think that she thought i was talkin' about sex!!!!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I found your post hard to read, but this is my take on what I could make sense of...

You just go for what you want with a woman, and then let her say no if she doesn't want it. You don't talk about it or ask.

Some girls have dignity. Just because they said "no" on the first date doesn't mean they will not kiss you on the second date.

Always try a second time, and then next them if they don't don't reciprocate.

Good luck, Bro!
 
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I think you were very naive, its not that they were playing you but that you didn't know how to play them. I would ask you to figure out everything by putting yourself in the girls' shoes. and give this whole thing a thought!

and like mavrick said, you can try a second time, too....
 
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you express yourself through ACTION not words. dont EVER talk about foreplay or messing around or whatever. JUST DO IT.

and not only did you talk about it.. you did it in a very passive way... 'I THINK we should be doin SOMETHING"

even if i said this to my current LTR she would tell me no ...lol

be CONFIDENT in yourself and EXPECT that she wants to.

im just hopin you didnt purchase all the booze lol
 
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lgbs2004 said:
ps: in my opinion i must be very direct with this girl, saying something like: stop playing games, hook up with me or get the f**k away from me!!!
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You sound likd a friend of mine. Girls make him REALLY frustrated. You need to get some charm and this wouldnt be an issue.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You just probably failed to escalate. Make the encounter sexual, and it's all gravy.
 
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