"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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BongDuy

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Pretend a girl comes to you and you have interests in her. She has just broken up with her bf or is having relationship problems and is looking for a listener to talk to.

Is there anyway to convince her to dump that guy, or give her advice that would lead for some sexy time? I remember you shouldn't try to "Save a hoe" but what if she comes to you? Should you try to help her, or would that be a FRIEND zone type of thing? If so, how can you avoid it? make up some excuse to get up and leave?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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King Turi

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Sounds pretty friend-zoned to me.

Unless you bust a move on her and make your intentions known.
 

Warrior74

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I avoid those situations like the plague. If we are not already friends, truely friends (as in I would never want to fvck her and see her ONLY as a friend), then I would listen and offer advice and support. Otherwise I would cut it short and say lets go do something and game her like any other girl.
 
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