"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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BongDuy

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Pretend a girl comes to you and you have interests in her. She has just broken up with her bf or is having relationship problems and is looking for a listener to talk to.

Is there anyway to convince her to dump that guy, or give her advice that would lead for some sexy time? I remember you shouldn't try to "Save a hoe" but what if she comes to you? Should you try to help her, or would that be a FRIEND zone type of thing? If so, how can you avoid it? make up some excuse to get up and leave?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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King Turi

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Sounds pretty friend-zoned to me.

Unless you bust a move on her and make your intentions known.
 

Warrior74

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I avoid those situations like the plague. If we are not already friends, truely friends (as in I would never want to fvck her and see her ONLY as a friend), then I would listen and offer advice and support. Otherwise I would cut it short and say lets go do something and game her like any other girl.
 
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