"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Girls that like you but you don't like back

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There's been girls in the past and girl presently that are showing interest in me but I am not interested in them. In the past, I would have just stop talking to them because I saw no point in trying to befriend them because they would have the intention of turning me into their boyfriend. But, now I realize that befriending them would be good social proof. The girls can say good stuff about me to their friends and they'll hook me up and that's that. How would I go about trying to befriend a girl without making it seem like I don't like I'm interested in her as a girlfriend?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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So pimp its scary

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I call that the curse.

You will ALWAYS have the fugly women that are BARELY in you're acceptable beauty range that adore you and worship the ground you walk on.

Then, you'll start to think you're the shyt cause you got all these followers behind you wanted to slobber your nob. Then a hottie comes around that you actually like, she's cute she's funny, she's got her shyt together... but she wants no part in you.

It takes alot more... game to pull a hottie than it does a fugly... simply put, accept it.
 

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Just go with the igorance thing. Unless they come out and say "I like you we should date" then you can hang out with them and just pretend like they just wanted to be friends in the first place and if it should come up about dating you can pull the "I like you as friend" thing that so many girls do to guys.

Nothing says you can't turn the tables on the opposite sex.
 

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Hahahaha I feel your pain bro.

This one girl I know is behaving as a pest as we speak.
Compliments over the smallest things, being clingy, trying to get my attention, watever. It gets annoying (now I know what an HB9-10 feels like!), but I just try to maintain SOME contact though.

She doesn't have too many hot friends, so I'm just "whatevers" with her. I sound pretty evil, but if she had hot hot friends I'd use her for social proof. Sorry, but life goes on.
 
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