Girls that don't make eye contact

[stevey_2000]

Hi my fellow DJ's, nice to be back!!,

just come back from travelling abroad for a few months but the question i have to ask is this...

i have very often come across girls that, when i have been with my friends, i've been talking to, questions i have asked them BUT made eye contact with my friends while answering my questions, is this a good sign or a bad sign?, someone told me that if a girl doesn't make eye contact with you while in conversation with you likes you, how about you guys and your experiences??

cheers,

Ste.

 

[So pimp its scary]

I'm not sure if I understand the question, but, in my experience girls that don't look you in the eye are either a) shy, b) is unusually attracted to you or c) not attracted to you.

You can usually tell by their OTHER actions which case that it is. In your case, if she is looking your friends in the eye, then she may likely be more attracted to your friends.

IF though, she looks them in the eyes but at the same time shows all the other signs of being attracted to you, then it's just that she is intimidated by your eyes.

You'll really have to judge that one for yourself.

 

[Freeman]

Originally posted by stevey_2000
Hi my fellow DJ's, nice to be back!!,

just come back from travelling abroad for a few months but the question i have to ask is this...

i have very often come across girls that, when i have been with my friends, i've been talking to, questions i have asked them BUT made eye contact with my friends while answering my questions, is this a good sign or a bad sign?, someone told me that if a girl doesn't make eye contact with you while in conversation with you likes you, how about you guys and your experiences??

cheers,

Ste.

This is something that you will have to figure out on your own..In situations like this one-you have to play it by ear..

-ONE-

 

[Don Juanabbe]

That's right. I've met plenty of women throughout my lifetime who acted totally disinterested in me, yet paid attention to everyone else, and alot of the time it was because they had a very high interest in me. I know this because invariably they'd get more comfortable with me and I was able to get with them.

 

[LegalSeduction]

How about girls that make eye contact for a split second then look away (walking down the street)?

or girls that are obviously trying not to make eye contact with people (me?) by staring at the ground or the wall while they walk?

 

[MVP]

hm interesting questions

 

[insidious]

I think this dynamic that we call "EC" is very interesting and subjective. Unfortunately it seems a lot of us hang our ego/self-esteem/state on this strange phenomena, which is fine, but the problem is, eye contact is very tempestuous and unreliable, like most women

The same woman who might one day give you killer EC as you approach her on the street and just make your day brighter may the next day, for a variety of reasons which you will never know, totally ignore your eager and ****y a$$ and just dump your state into shytville - and you can never really know why without her explanation.

EC is a useful tool but it should be used and considered wisely. Don't put all your eggs in the EC basket cause frankly, it's just a small battle in a much larger and grueling war.

I have this chick buddy, we hang out. There are times, when her self-esteem is lagging, that she just smiles at strangers, men, many of whom she feels no attraction for, and it helps her feel better. No doubt there are tons of men who proceed to think they are the kings of the world thinking they've made smiling EC with some strange woman, but in reality, they were tools.