"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Girls that dont carry a conversation

mhs09

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Theres this girl i met a couple months ago at six flags shes one of my friends little sisters she gave me alot of IOI's that day and we were using a lot of kino she also got on my back and i gave her a piggyback ride and she said something into my ear in a sexy whisper but i didnt really here what she said. i thought everything was going good for me and after that day we texted every once in a while and she always thought some of the stuff i said was cute. but she is the kinda girl that doesnt really know what to talk about when you ask her to change the subject which sucks cause i always have to think of what to talk about. So today i saw her and when we got in a car she wanted to sit next to me but every time i asked her something she would answer but wouldn't ask anything back she was pushing me in the car so i would push her back we did this almost the whole time and she was also kinda acting like a ***** that day too so im confused does she still like me or not and how could i get her to talk more?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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mhs09

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so her acting like a ***** the other day wasn't bad thing and what am i suppose to do to get her to talk more?
 

john paul

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yea i agree with chapstick.
theres no talking involved when your kissing her, make your move
 

ElStud

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It has nothing to do with her not being able to carry on a conversation. She just isn't interested enough in you to say anything back. Plus, your whole mindset is bad, you're not asking her questions simply because you're interested, you're asking her questions because you feel the social awkwardness when she doesn't say anything. So how do you get her to talk more? Raise her buying temperature and interest basically. You can do this by negging her, C+Fing and stuff like that. It's obvious that it's not to the point yet where you should be trying to vibe. And overall just lose that "Expecting" mindset, where you say something expecting her to react.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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