Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Girls that date White Trash complete and total Losers

st_99

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Do you guys consider this a big red flag?

This girl has been giving me obvious IOI's, eye contact with big smiles, acts shy and nervous around me, etc.. real cute chic. Looks like she's reaching for a new branch.


Here's the issue.

Her current BF is SUCH white trash, and I can't even stress that enough. They've been together a while. If you looked it up in the dictionary his face would be there. The type that is completely insecure, challenges people to fights, very obnoxious, has that trailer park look, just a complete jackass. I'm embarrassed for him. Its REALLY REALLY AWFUL! He's probably 30 with the mentality of a 4 year old.

On this girl, well, I don't know a ton about her but if you saw her you would say "what the hell is she doing with this guy?" Everybody says it. She dresses conservative, is college educated. She at least has the the look of somebody "normal". I know enough losers and their girlfriends and all these girls are similar in that you can see why they are with this type of person. This girl just doesn't fit the bill from what I can tell on the surface.

So, do I even bother with this chic?

It just really bothers me that she would even be with somebody like that. Its such a turnoff and I don't know if I'm being irrational here. I just see at as a red flag. It makes me believe that she is internally screwed up to find it acceptable to have a boyfriend like that. :kick:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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KontrollerX

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If you get that inner gut instinct sense that she is probably messed up inside then listen to your gut instinct.

It never lies.

Sure sometimes a chick might get with a guy like this because he shows her some side of his personality that sets off her emotions that no other person is allowed access to or sees but most of the time its just a chick whose got no self respect dating a loser because she doesn't feel she's worth anything better.

Occam's razor.
 

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Dude, you sound like a pussy right now trying to rationalize whether or not you should be with a girl.

It sounds like your scared of her boyfriend..If you don't think you can beat him in a fight or he is to intimidating then stay away from her.

nothing wrong with avoiding bodily harm and knowing when to pick your fights...but don't sit here and start trying to pick her apart from a distance and make assumptions, high school chicks pull that shit NOT men, if she's not your type, fuck her and keep it moving sun son, (yea i said it twice)
 

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Metro3pilot said:
CAPTAIN SAV A HO

:rockon:
Ya think? Is a girl a ho because she ditches her bf for somebody else?

But I see where your coming from.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Drum&Bass said:
Dude, you sound like a pussy right now trying to rationalize whether or not you should be with a girl.

It sounds like your scared of her boyfriend..If you don't think you can beat him in a fight or he is to intimidating then stay away from her.

nothing wrong with avoiding bodily harm and knowing when to pick your fights...but don't sit here and start trying to pick her apart from a distance and make assumptions, high school chicks pull that shit NOT men, if she's not your type, fuck her and keep it moving sun son, (yea i said it twice)

Whoa, calm down. Did I touch a nerve.
 

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Nahhh .... doesnt make her a ho ......

it sounds like you wanna rescue her from this terrible fate bestowed upon her by dating some trailer trash guy ...when she's so much more quality than he is ....


" birds of feather flock together " chief

:rockon:
 

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He probably fvcks her real good.

She's with him for a reason - it aint status.

I wouldn't really care, by the way. I'd just look at it as an opportunity for her to upgrade.
 

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Metro3pilot said:
Nahhh .... doesnt make her a ho ......

it sounds like you wanna rescue her from this terrible fate bestowed upon her by dating some trailer trash guy ...when she's so much more quality than he is ....
Nah, wasn't thinking that way.


Metro3pilot said:
" birds of feather flock together " chief

:rockon:
Thats exactly what I was thinking.
 

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I would run as fast as I could in the other direction from this women. This is coming from a guy who is always up for a challenge. She's just a waste of time, nothing good could come of spending time with her.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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KontrollerX said:
If you get that inner gut instinct sense that she is probably messed up inside then listen to your gut instinct.

It never lies.

Sure sometimes a chick might get with a guy like this because he shows her some side of his personality that sets off her emotions that no other person is allowed access to or sees but most of the time its just a chick whose got no self respect dating a loser because she doesn't feel she's worth anything better.

Occam's razor.
This brother has it right. Listen to the "little man" who lives in your gut. He never lies.

This girl is confusing her emotional sways as misguided love. She thinks she can change him but if she's interested in you then she is obviously looking for a way out. Brother D&B is quite crude but makes a valid point that her idiot may want to lean toward violence. In that case be sure you want to throw down with that garbage, that's up to you.
 

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MacAvoy said:
I would run as fast as I could in the other direction from this women. This is coming from a guy who is always up for a challenge. She's just a waste of time, nothing good could come of spending time with her.

you're probably right.
 
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Women tend to have very maleable personalities. They will often change depending on the person they are with. I would definetely do a follow up. Try imposing your will on her. See where it leads.
 

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GIANT_KILLER said:
Women tend to have very maleable personalities. They will often change depending on the person they are with. I would definetely do a follow up. Try imposing your will on her. See where it leads.
Impose your will? What do you mean by that?
 
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