"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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girls tell me im a sweet heart

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the girls im close with (girlfriends mainly) always say im a sweet heart now i dont supplicate and i do bust on girls sometime jokin around but when i do compliment im sincere and if they have something bugging them i try to help them and im usually domanite about things but in more secure way "i dont order them around or nothing" but my point is if a girlfriend says ur a sweet heart is it a good thing?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DJDamage

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hell695 said:
the girls im close with (girlfriends mainly) always say im a sweet heart
Please clarify this "girls im close with (girlfriends)"

Are those girls you are sleeping with or not? If you can answer my question then you would have probably found your answer here too.
 

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"You're sucha sweetheart,.."

Translation: You will never see me naked.

"I think of you as a brother,.."

Translation: I consider sex with you to be incest.


Women have boyfirends and girlfriends. If you're not ƒucking her, you're her girlfriend.

Circulate yourself more son. At your age you need to nip the AFC mentalities in the bud now.
 

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i try to help them and im usually domanite about things but in more secure way. i dont order them around, or nothing


Translation:


You make a nice and safe girl friend a woman can always rely on for a heart warming talk.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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That's not always 100% true.

The girl I'm sleeping with tells me that I'm a sweetheart all the time. I bust on her but in a joking way and then sometimes i'll be real sweet to her. She totally digs it.

She actually said the other night that she keeps waiting for me to disappear because ther's no way a guy can be this perfect :yes:
 
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