"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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girls tell me im a sweet heart

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the girls im close with (girlfriends mainly) always say im a sweet heart now i dont supplicate and i do bust on girls sometime jokin around but when i do compliment im sincere and if they have something bugging them i try to help them and im usually domanite about things but in more secure way "i dont order them around or nothing" but my point is if a girlfriend says ur a sweet heart is it a good thing?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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DJDamage

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hell695 said:
the girls im close with (girlfriends mainly) always say im a sweet heart
Please clarify this "girls im close with (girlfriends)"

Are those girls you are sleeping with or not? If you can answer my question then you would have probably found your answer here too.
 

Rollo Tomassi

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"You're sucha sweetheart,.."

Translation: You will never see me naked.

"I think of you as a brother,.."

Translation: I consider sex with you to be incest.


Women have boyfirends and girlfriends. If you're not ƒucking her, you're her girlfriend.

Circulate yourself more son. At your age you need to nip the AFC mentalities in the bud now.
 

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i try to help them and im usually domanite about things but in more secure way. i dont order them around, or nothing


Translation:


You make a nice and safe girl friend a woman can always rely on for a heart warming talk.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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That's not always 100% true.

The girl I'm sleeping with tells me that I'm a sweetheart all the time. I bust on her but in a joking way and then sometimes i'll be real sweet to her. She totally digs it.

She actually said the other night that she keeps waiting for me to disappear because ther's no way a guy can be this perfect :yes:
 
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