"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Girls tell me I look a lot older than I am

Chimera

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Is this a bad thing and if so, what do I do about it?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Kal0051

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hmm, girls always tell me I look much younger than I am. In my case it does hurt my chances with some girls but not by much (they usually don't care once they find out that I'm older than them). Also girls tend to like older men so this is not a problem (case in point: one of my friends was crazy about this one creepy guy that was 15 years older than her).
 

Warrior74

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Does she mean your face, your haircut, or your style of dress? Two of those you can do something about.
 

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Normally it's a good thing (I'm assuming she meant how you look pjysically, not how you dress.) Girls like older men, for all kinds of reasons. It would also depend on how old you actually are, if you're 50 and you look 70, maybe not so great, if you're 16 and look 22, that's good.
 

Chimera

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I'm 20 and people say I look anywhere from 22-25
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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