"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Girls tell me I look a lot older than I am

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Is this a bad thing and if so, what do I do about it?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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hmm, girls always tell me I look much younger than I am. In my case it does hurt my chances with some girls but not by much (they usually don't care once they find out that I'm older than them). Also girls tend to like older men so this is not a problem (case in point: one of my friends was crazy about this one creepy guy that was 15 years older than her).
 
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Does she mean your face, your haircut, or your style of dress? Two of those you can do something about.
 
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Normally it's a good thing (I'm assuming she meant how you look pjysically, not how you dress.) Girls like older men, for all kinds of reasons. It would also depend on how old you actually are, if you're 50 and you look 70, maybe not so great, if you're 16 and look 22, that's good.
 
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I'm 20 and people say I look anywhere from 22-25
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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