"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Girls tell me I act and look like a Virgin!?

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Recently I had every girl I talk or flirted to tell me that they think I am a virgin. When I asked them why they tell me that I act and look like one... I had this problem since 7th grade and it's confusing me... Is this a shyt test? neg-hit? or just a random quetion they like to ask all guys? lol I even had one girl comfort me by saying "There's nothing wrong with being a virgin." LOL :D

I usually tell them the truth by sayin I lost mine when I was 15 to a 18 year old and they are "surprised" that I lost it to a 18 year old for some reason and it usually leads them to be more interested. So yea anyone experiance the samething? any ideas WTF is going on?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ive got that before as well, a few months ago actually. Im not, but i didnt care with this girl how i acted cause she was a fvckin helmet. She still wanted to bone but i woke up and realized what i was doing.
 
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I swear it's a IOI, because the same damn thing has happened to me. Play along with it, it might end up being you lost your virginity for the ninth time this year. ;)
 
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Damn, you must be one virgin-looking-mofo.



You must have baby fat, or come from a loving family and you are overtly friendly. Tell them that you are, and that in fact you are getting a boner/horny just by talking to them, or just by looking at cosmo magazine. And that you've kissed two women, but don't think that your mom and grand mom count.

Check out this thread, and the 2 links at the bottom of the thread.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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SamePendo said:
Damn, you must be one virgin-looking-mofo.



You must have baby fat, or come from a loving family and you are overtly friendly. Tell them that you are, and that in fact you are getting a boner/horny just by talking to them, or just by looking at cosmo magazine. And that you've kissed two women, but don't think that your mom and grand mom count.

Check out this thread, and the 2 links at the bottom of the thread.
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LOL please specify what virgin looking mofo looks like? I'm pretty thin 15% Body fat but I'm wicked good looking and cute so maybe that's why they think I'm all innocent. :p o well next time I'm gonna accuse them of tryin to steal it AGAIN from me :D!
 
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CCKazi007 said:
LOL please specify what virgin looking mofo looks like? I'm pretty thin 15% Body fat but I'm wicked good looking and cute so maybe that's why they think I'm all innocent. :p o well next time I'm gonna accuse them of tryin to steal it AGAIN from me :D!
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Sorry to burst your bubble, but 15% body fat isnt very thin...

Anyway, it could go both ways i think. Often times girls who want me but i dont make any moves will say things like that to me. On the other hand it could be an insult... you have to take the context.
 
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Ask them if corpses count
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:crackup: oh god! haha!

Yeah I'm thinking that could be an IOI also. I guess it depends on how they say it. I would never accuse somebody of being a virgin to their face cause that could be an area that they're really insecure about you know? Most girls wouldn't do it either because they're afraid of making you feel uncomfortable, that is unless they wanted to help you "take care of it". Thats my feelings about it.
 
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Theyre saying you look like a virgin (look like you can't get laid), act like a virgin (childish maybe, possibly just no game).

When I was a virgin, girls never believed me. I have a reputation as a "player" without really even talking to people. Chances are your game needs to be turned up a notch, and you need to exude stud.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Don't worry about it kid - it is just the trite talk of hors!!!
 
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I have the opposite situation

I have only slept with one girl. At work, I like to flirt and make girls laugh. Resulting in everyone thinking I am this big player, which I am not. But, hey I sometimes use that to my advantage :)
 
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SamePendo said:
Damn, you must be one virgin-looking-mofo.



You must have baby fat, or come from a loving family and you are overtly friendly. Tell them that you are, and that in fact you are getting a boner/horny just by talking to them, or just by looking at cosmo magazine. And that you've kissed two women, but don't think that your mom and grand mom count.

Check out this thread, and the 2 links at the bottom of the thread.
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Nice, seriously good stuff
 
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