"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Girls tell me I act and look like a Virgin!?

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Recently I had every girl I talk or flirted to tell me that they think I am a virgin. When I asked them why they tell me that I act and look like one... I had this problem since 7th grade and it's confusing me... Is this a shyt test? neg-hit? or just a random quetion they like to ask all guys? lol I even had one girl comfort me by saying "There's nothing wrong with being a virgin." LOL :D

I usually tell them the truth by sayin I lost mine when I was 15 to a 18 year old and they are "surprised" that I lost it to a 18 year old for some reason and it usually leads them to be more interested. So yea anyone experiance the samething? any ideas WTF is going on?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ive got that before as well, a few months ago actually. Im not, but i didnt care with this girl how i acted cause she was a fvckin helmet. She still wanted to bone but i woke up and realized what i was doing.
 
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I swear it's a IOI, because the same damn thing has happened to me. Play along with it, it might end up being you lost your virginity for the ninth time this year. ;)
 
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Damn, you must be one virgin-looking-mofo.



You must have baby fat, or come from a loving family and you are overtly friendly. Tell them that you are, and that in fact you are getting a boner/horny just by talking to them, or just by looking at cosmo magazine. And that you've kissed two women, but don't think that your mom and grand mom count.

Check out this thread, and the 2 links at the bottom of the thread.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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SamePendo said:
Damn, you must be one virgin-looking-mofo.



You must have baby fat, or come from a loving family and you are overtly friendly. Tell them that you are, and that in fact you are getting a boner/horny just by talking to them, or just by looking at cosmo magazine. And that you've kissed two women, but don't think that your mom and grand mom count.

Check out this thread, and the 2 links at the bottom of the thread.
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LOL please specify what virgin looking mofo looks like? I'm pretty thin 15% Body fat but I'm wicked good looking and cute so maybe that's why they think I'm all innocent. :p o well next time I'm gonna accuse them of tryin to steal it AGAIN from me :D!
 
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CCKazi007 said:
LOL please specify what virgin looking mofo looks like? I'm pretty thin 15% Body fat but I'm wicked good looking and cute so maybe that's why they think I'm all innocent. :p o well next time I'm gonna accuse them of tryin to steal it AGAIN from me :D!
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Sorry to burst your bubble, but 15% body fat isnt very thin...

Anyway, it could go both ways i think. Often times girls who want me but i dont make any moves will say things like that to me. On the other hand it could be an insult... you have to take the context.
 
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Ask them if corpses count
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:crackup: oh god! haha!

Yeah I'm thinking that could be an IOI also. I guess it depends on how they say it. I would never accuse somebody of being a virgin to their face cause that could be an area that they're really insecure about you know? Most girls wouldn't do it either because they're afraid of making you feel uncomfortable, that is unless they wanted to help you "take care of it". Thats my feelings about it.
 
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Theyre saying you look like a virgin (look like you can't get laid), act like a virgin (childish maybe, possibly just no game).

When I was a virgin, girls never believed me. I have a reputation as a "player" without really even talking to people. Chances are your game needs to be turned up a notch, and you need to exude stud.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Don't worry about it kid - it is just the trite talk of hors!!!
 
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I have the opposite situation

I have only slept with one girl. At work, I like to flirt and make girls laugh. Resulting in everyone thinking I am this big player, which I am not. But, hey I sometimes use that to my advantage :)
 
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SamePendo said:
Damn, you must be one virgin-looking-mofo.



You must have baby fat, or come from a loving family and you are overtly friendly. Tell them that you are, and that in fact you are getting a boner/horny just by talking to them, or just by looking at cosmo magazine. And that you've kissed two women, but don't think that your mom and grand mom count.

Check out this thread, and the 2 links at the bottom of the thread.
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Nice, seriously good stuff
 
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