"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girls subliminal sh!t-test

Chamber36

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Something funny occurred to me today. I recently ran into this girl who I came on to too strong when we first met. I tapped her on the shoulder and she came to me(it was in the club), so we chit-chat but I notice that her breast was sorta probing my zone, actually touching against my hand, in which I had a drink. So I think, oh that's nice, and I don't resist. That's the moment our conversation ended. I dunno if she did that consciously, but she won the frame with her damn titties.

I guess my body language was initially apprehensive, and then I opened up to her when she touched me with her titty. Something similar has happened to me before, when I ran into a chick I'd made out with. I had really apprehensive body language, she totally opened up towards me, I open up to her, and she quickly runs off.

I already knew about microcalibration and ****-tests, but here you see the combination. It's important to let those women qualify themselves to you. That would be the solution, I think. And don't give them approval too quick.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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