"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Girls subliminal sh!t-test

Chamber36

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Something funny occurred to me today. I recently ran into this girl who I came on to too strong when we first met. I tapped her on the shoulder and she came to me(it was in the club), so we chit-chat but I notice that her breast was sorta probing my zone, actually touching against my hand, in which I had a drink. So I think, oh that's nice, and I don't resist. That's the moment our conversation ended. I dunno if she did that consciously, but she won the frame with her damn titties.

I guess my body language was initially apprehensive, and then I opened up to her when she touched me with her titty. Something similar has happened to me before, when I ran into a chick I'd made out with. I had really apprehensive body language, she totally opened up towards me, I open up to her, and she quickly runs off.

I already knew about microcalibration and ****-tests, but here you see the combination. It's important to let those women qualify themselves to you. That would be the solution, I think. And don't give them approval too quick.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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