Im getting my drivers liscense soon (October) and from experence ive seen that girls would try and catch rides with some of my friends that had gotten there lisences.....and now i know that they will try and do the same with me!....Its not so much that i dont want to give them the ride, its just that I dont want them to think they have there own personally showfer (Plus gas is insane....Thanks BUSH!!!..lol)....so should i give em the ride, or just blow em off nicely....(dont wanna look like a jackass here)
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Girls Sticking because Drivers Lisence
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Black_Italian
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if you have any kind of balls you will say this and exactly this.
"what will i get if i drive you home/mall?"
You wont look like a jackass if you have been doing your reading you would know this.
she will comeback with some answer
"what do you want?"
then you say
"use your imagination"
Shell be like
"no" or "omg typical guy"
then you say "bye" and drive away.........
Trust me after this she will be intrested. TRUST ME i been through high school i know what im talking about
"what will i get if i drive you home/mall?"
You wont look like a jackass if you have been doing your reading you would know this.
she will comeback with some answer
"what do you want?"
then you say
"use your imagination"
Shell be like
"no" or "omg typical guy"
then you say "bye" and drive away.........
Trust me after this she will be intrested. TRUST ME i been through high school i know what im talking about
I mean if they somehow give you rides in return when they get their license, then it wouldn't be so bad, but if you're just giving them rides at will then they're going to start using you. You don't really want to go down this road. My sophomore year in high school, I had people (guys and girls) use me until I finally put my foot down and said I'm not going to do it anymore. If they give you gas money, I don't see any real problem with it. You just kinda have to work out some kinda deal with the other person. You don't want to look like a push-over.
ight then PIMP sounds good! sounds like a plain to me! but they come in groups! and you know isolate or masterbate, if theres to many of em they will try and put on a front!..so whats up in that situation? (directed towards Black Italian)
Well when I get a drivers liscence I am going to get a small pickup truck I think so I can drive **** around and stuff. Atleast I think I am.
Not meaning to steal the thread but what kind of vehicle should a highschooler get? I live in the city so I wouldn't need a farm vehicle but I always wanted a small Nissan pick up or something because they are dependable. I will be buying from the local used auto place.
Not meaning to steal the thread but what kind of vehicle should a highschooler get? I live in the city so I wouldn't need a farm vehicle but I always wanted a small Nissan pick up or something because they are dependable. I will be buying from the local used auto place.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
tell them ur mom said not to give prostitutes rides.
haha. psh just tell them ur busy. say u got a date or whatever or ur somewhere with someone etc.
haha. psh just tell them ur busy. say u got a date or whatever or ur somewhere with someone etc.
familyguyfan
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To expand on this:
What I would say after she said "no" or "omg typical guy" is something like this:
"Woah. I'm just trying to get some gas money or something out of you and here you are bringing up sex."
Also, 08aisaac, I would get something that could hold at least 3 other people besides yourself. Just get a sedan like a Honda Accord or a Toyota Camry. Or if you can afford it get an early 90s BMW 3 series, which you should be able to get for around 6 or 7 grand. The reason I say get a sedan is because they get better gas mileage than SUVs and whether or not it's important now, it will probably be more important later on in high school that you're able to transport other people. Once you're an upperclassman and start going to more parties, when you and your group of friends go out at night you'll prob alternate who is the designated driver for the night, so you'll need to be able to drive people.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
make a ****load of posts and sleep with the guy who runs this.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
oh i wanna get a vw minibus. haha probably not much of a chick magnet, but i'll probably have a solid band and so we'll put our cash together and get it as a gig van, and i can drive it when i feel like it.
Aznkid1030
Don Juan
You can just say...
ok where to lady?
ok where to lady?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Dude are you insane?! Riding hos in your car for free!!!! Have these hos blow you in exchange, nut in their mouth and tell them to get the fvck out after you're satisfied! After that drive about a block and a half away and throw all her sh!t out the window that way she can go running after them. Don't let a ho use you. If she knows she can freeload off of you she would do that sh!t to the extremes.
undesputable
Master Don Juan
I dont know, I would say oh blow em off, dont give them rides....but i didnt have a car all through junior year and i would get rides wherever i needed to go most of the time.... and i was thankful for that, bc riding the school bus during your junior year cant be fun at all....or not being able to go out bc your friends cant come pick you up isnt fun either.
so my senior year i will give rides to whoever needs them....most of the time.
so my senior year i will give rides to whoever needs them....most of the time.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
i was serious when i said to say "my mom says not to give prostitues rides"
that would be so funny man. c&f at its best.
that would be so funny man. c&f at its best.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.