Im getting my drivers liscense soon (October) and from experence ive seen that girls would try and catch rides with some of my friends that had gotten there lisences.....and now i know that they will try and do the same with me!....Its not so much that i dont want to give them the ride, its just that I dont want them to think they have there own personally showfer (Plus gas is insane....Thanks BUSH!!!..lol)....so should i give em the ride, or just blow em off nicely....(dont wanna look like a jackass here)
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Girls Sticking because Drivers Lisence
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Black_Italian
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if you have any kind of balls you will say this and exactly this.
"what will i get if i drive you home/mall?"
You wont look like a jackass if you have been doing your reading you would know this.
she will comeback with some answer
"what do you want?"
then you say
"use your imagination"
Shell be like
"no" or "omg typical guy"
then you say "bye" and drive away.........
Trust me after this she will be intrested. TRUST ME i been through high school i know what im talking about
"what will i get if i drive you home/mall?"
You wont look like a jackass if you have been doing your reading you would know this.
she will comeback with some answer
"what do you want?"
then you say
"use your imagination"
Shell be like
"no" or "omg typical guy"
then you say "bye" and drive away.........
Trust me after this she will be intrested. TRUST ME i been through high school i know what im talking about
I mean if they somehow give you rides in return when they get their license, then it wouldn't be so bad, but if you're just giving them rides at will then they're going to start using you. You don't really want to go down this road. My sophomore year in high school, I had people (guys and girls) use me until I finally put my foot down and said I'm not going to do it anymore. If they give you gas money, I don't see any real problem with it. You just kinda have to work out some kinda deal with the other person. You don't want to look like a push-over.
ight then PIMP sounds good! sounds like a plain to me! but they come in groups! and you know isolate or masterbate, if theres to many of em they will try and put on a front!..so whats up in that situation? (directed towards Black Italian)
Well when I get a drivers liscence I am going to get a small pickup truck I think so I can drive **** around and stuff. Atleast I think I am.
Not meaning to steal the thread but what kind of vehicle should a highschooler get? I live in the city so I wouldn't need a farm vehicle but I always wanted a small Nissan pick up or something because they are dependable. I will be buying from the local used auto place.
Not meaning to steal the thread but what kind of vehicle should a highschooler get? I live in the city so I wouldn't need a farm vehicle but I always wanted a small Nissan pick up or something because they are dependable. I will be buying from the local used auto place.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
tell them ur mom said not to give prostitutes rides.
haha. psh just tell them ur busy. say u got a date or whatever or ur somewhere with someone etc.
haha. psh just tell them ur busy. say u got a date or whatever or ur somewhere with someone etc.
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To expand on this:
What I would say after she said "no" or "omg typical guy" is something like this:
"Woah. I'm just trying to get some gas money or something out of you and here you are bringing up sex."
Also, 08aisaac, I would get something that could hold at least 3 other people besides yourself. Just get a sedan like a Honda Accord or a Toyota Camry. Or if you can afford it get an early 90s BMW 3 series, which you should be able to get for around 6 or 7 grand. The reason I say get a sedan is because they get better gas mileage than SUVs and whether or not it's important now, it will probably be more important later on in high school that you're able to transport other people. Once you're an upperclassman and start going to more parties, when you and your group of friends go out at night you'll prob alternate who is the designated driver for the night, so you'll need to be able to drive people.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
make a ****load of posts and sleep with the guy who runs this.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
oh i wanna get a vw minibus. haha probably not much of a chick magnet, but i'll probably have a solid band and so we'll put our cash together and get it as a gig van, and i can drive it when i feel like it.
Aznkid1030
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You can just say...
ok where to lady?
ok where to lady?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Dude are you insane?! Riding hos in your car for free!!!! Have these hos blow you in exchange, nut in their mouth and tell them to get the fvck out after you're satisfied! After that drive about a block and a half away and throw all her sh!t out the window that way she can go running after them. Don't let a ho use you. If she knows she can freeload off of you she would do that sh!t to the extremes.
undesputable
Master Don Juan
I dont know, I would say oh blow em off, dont give them rides....but i didnt have a car all through junior year and i would get rides wherever i needed to go most of the time.... and i was thankful for that, bc riding the school bus during your junior year cant be fun at all....or not being able to go out bc your friends cant come pick you up isnt fun either.
so my senior year i will give rides to whoever needs them....most of the time.
so my senior year i will give rides to whoever needs them....most of the time.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
i was serious when i said to say "my mom says not to give prostitues rides"
that would be so funny man. c&f at its best.
that would be so funny man. c&f at its best.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.