"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Girls Smirking At Me

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I've noticed this sometimes. They will stare and smile, but it's a smirking type of smile. What are these girls thinking? I've seen this when I try on clothes for example. I'll see a girl walking behind me, stop, then stare and smile and smirk.

Or, it might be some girls walking towards me. The stare and smile I take as signs of attraction, but the smirking is kind of different. What's up with that? What are they thinking?

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm not staring at them, I notice them staring at me first, and then smirking.

To rephrase my question: who has noticed this from girls, then acted on it? Please, no speculation from keyboard jockeys or inexperienced guys.

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Many times. Just smile back and go talk to them.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Huh????

Actually, Kiko your response is not quite clear to me either. Sigh.

BuildingSomethingBig said:
By any chance, did any of them giggle and mention the word 'pigeon'? :p
 
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