I go through these cycles where I don't get noticed at all by women, then all of a sudden, 3 or 4 times a week, a girl will smile at me as I glance or look at her as I'm going by her... does anyone act on this and do you think it's IOI? It's weird how I go through these cycles, and this will probably last a month or so.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Girls smiling at you in stores and public places
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Thomas94305
Senior Don Juan
I go through those cycles too. I'll have spells where I just can't get a number close, or a friendly smile from a gal no matter what I do, how relaxed I am, etc. Then, I'll have periods where, for no reason, smiles, conversations started by women around me, etc..
I know people here will try to explain it, saying that I was previously trying too hard, then I just did not care and the lack of response on my part generated their attraction, etc. It'd be nice to have a webcam, and get your opinions.
However, IMO, it's not this. During the dry spells, I'll think back on the day when I had women around, and was just into my thing, or was otherwise aloof; nada, nothing. Being who I am, I'm well versed in statistics, and it's largely a consequence of the numbers. If you walk up to a slot machine, and play for a long time, expect periods where you win no matter what, then expect periods where the machine just eats your money heartlessly. This may be the same deal.
So.. in part, I'm saying to not get discouraged. The down cycles may be because of things external to you. You may be the best looking and most charming guy they've seen in a while. However, you could be getting a group of lesbians followed by a group of happily married's, followed by a group of men haters...:cuss: Then, you may run into a spell of women who've grown and reflected that they really need to be more available to decent men, women that are surrounded by many HBs and have not seen many attractive men, Valentines day or another holiday is coming up, etc.. :woo:
Whatever.. I do my best to measure my success by what I control, my skills, making the approaches, improving, etc. I claim no responsibility for a woman's choices.
I know people here will try to explain it, saying that I was previously trying too hard, then I just did not care and the lack of response on my part generated their attraction, etc. It'd be nice to have a webcam, and get your opinions.
However, IMO, it's not this. During the dry spells, I'll think back on the day when I had women around, and was just into my thing, or was otherwise aloof; nada, nothing. Being who I am, I'm well versed in statistics, and it's largely a consequence of the numbers. If you walk up to a slot machine, and play for a long time, expect periods where you win no matter what, then expect periods where the machine just eats your money heartlessly. This may be the same deal.
So.. in part, I'm saying to not get discouraged. The down cycles may be because of things external to you. You may be the best looking and most charming guy they've seen in a while. However, you could be getting a group of lesbians followed by a group of happily married's, followed by a group of men haters...:cuss: Then, you may run into a spell of women who've grown and reflected that they really need to be more available to decent men, women that are surrounded by many HBs and have not seen many attractive men, Valentines day or another holiday is coming up, etc.. :woo:
Whatever.. I do my best to measure my success by what I control, my skills, making the approaches, improving, etc. I claim no responsibility for a woman's choices.
knglerxt
Senior Don Juan
I agree. It's just one of those things that happens. A lot of people on this site try to over analyze everything.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Dude, get into the habit of saying "hello" to a woman whenever you make eye contact with her.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
PleasureKing
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WRONG. it has to do with your FEAR affecting your inner game.
Friend, you gotta step up and take action when you can make yourself comfortable with yourself.
these "cycles" that you have are not coming from external sources, they are coming from YOU.
produce an aura of confidence and control, and you will notice more smiles.
The PleasureKing
Friend, you gotta step up and take action when you can make yourself comfortable with yourself.
these "cycles" that you have are not coming from external sources, they are coming from YOU.
produce an aura of confidence and control, and you will notice more smiles.
The PleasureKing