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I was a quick learner, and learnt to quickly graduate.You just discovered the concept of spinning plates this past September. You still have A LOT to learn.
Best of luck with your mentality that women are sweet and demure
And there is the generalization; either women are all this, or all that. Yawn.You just discovered the concept of spinning plates this past September. You still have A LOT to learn.
Best of luck with your mentality that women are sweet and demure
Yes, which is probably why I have more mature views than you.
Try re-reading #28.Ah yes you must be referring to your mature view that women are sweet and demure
So why are you bothering to reply?
Unfortunately, you can't apply a broad brush rule like this. Women fvck you for a variety of reasons and fvck you in a variety of time sequences based on various reasons.
I dont know brotha. Sleeping with a guy within hours shows that she is very impulsive. She lacks restraint. That may come back to bite you in the azz one day if you date her. She can cheat on you because of that same lack of restraint. Even extremely promiscuous ex strippers made me wait a day or two. A girl is a slut if she cant wait more than 24 hrs.
I hear you bradd. But i am not saying be a chump and wait a month. But dang girl at least wait until the second time we hang out. Its symbolic more than anything. If you had a daughter would you tell her its ok so smash on the first night. Naw you would probly be like " look get to know this guy a little first'. But i respect ur point of view tho.
It definitely is a range of criteria. I didnt say that there wasnt any other criteria. But this is definitely one of them. No guy can tell me they would feel good if they found out their girlfriends had a habit of smashing on the first night. It is a red flag, it is not the only criteria.
I agree man. The sweet spot is about 3-5 interactions. My rule of thumb is as long as we are progressing to sex then we are good. The definition of quality vs decent is all semantics. The point is that letting a stranger you barely know potentially impregnate you is ridiculous. Shes more than likely promiscuous.
There are still girls that make dudes wait a few dates to give it up. This is not unicorn stuff man. Most of the women in the the 1960s used to make men wait a little. Girls in other more conservative cultures make men wait a little. I dont understand why some guys think this is crazy. We have become so adjusted to the insanity of this society that we are totally ok with it.
Ok i feel you. But i think these are exceptions. Doing it one time is not a big deal. But making it a habit of ONS and SNLs is not a healthy thing. The 5 yr ltr didnt give it up the first night tho. I am not saying that giving it up early is bad. I am specifically saying the FIRST night. If she cant even wait a few hours then thats not good. The summer girl was probably an exception to the rule. I dont know. But i know after the summer girl gave it up the first night you probably were a little suspicious at first about her sexual past. Your antennae went up and you were prob skeptical until you found out that she wasnt a slut. I am just saying its not ideal.
Slut shaming is bad because it doesn't benefit us men
No it doesn't benefit men. Because one day when you grow up to be a big boy.. you will look around and complain how all the women are sluts. Men are rational... they think of the greater good. Use your common sense.
