And you seem like you'd be a right laugh on a night out. It's an unusually mature discussion on the topic by men with life experience, which is really good.
I am daft and a bit of a idiot lulz!
I have had the fortunate chance to meet some of the best playboys around the world over the past decade (+/-). You learn a thing or two. Waiting be it in business, entrepreneurship, women and or life is screaming low testosterone. It doesn't end well. Don't follow my path. Don't dedicate absurd years of your life to women and game. Its not necessary nor ideal. I was just so hardcore blue pill, it took me time to evolve and transcend. Divorce rape and ruined would have alternatively been my fate there otherwise.
I think this mindset is great. Combined with the previously mentioned having a laugh, it's a great vibe.
However, there are also practicalities. Practically speaking, I don't smash or next. One common problem that I get is being able to get women home, begin to maul on my sofa, all good. The problem starts when exploring under the clothes, or taking the clothes off.
I lead. She follows or next.
A example of the following; my mate and i went back to a girls college residence. Note, i am 30 and he's 28. 1/2 girls was a ****. One word answers, ****ty attitude, and highly unattractive. The protocol is and always is the Freeze out. As in, ***** is dead to me.
I led the other girl into the bedroom. I took my ****kkk out and she started choking up. My mate and i eiffel tower'd her. Finished just after midnight. We left her to go get more girls. My mate picked up another girl. There was another interaction with her friend leaving another venue. I did not pull but, not for a lack of efforts. My mate drives the girl he picked up and i back to her place. Then he starts :
Have you ever been to Paris? You should come up to the eiffel tower!
Not dtf so he kicked her out. We went out and got grits + went to get more girls.
I am not saying you need to tag team skanks. I am saying, most guys wait, I run a train on a girl, and beta cuck provider waits to marry her to get star fish sex once a month. Its pathetic.
Reason being women are quite power mad, and they know that sex is happening at that point. It's about losing control and giving in to me (or not as the case may be). It really doesn't surprise me that some women don't orgasm for decades sometimes with the attitudes some of them have.
I honestly try to nut asap. Her inability to enjoy doesn't affect nor interest me if dkank status.
The result is blue balls. I've walked miles with blue balls before in tight jeans, too painful to even "sort myself out" later (if you know what I mean). I think that if you are going to be a player, you need to get used to blue balls plenty. That's about sex on your schedule vs hers.
Take it out.
But rather than 'smash or next', it's important to look at it as being about boundaries. You escalate, you push the boundaries a bit. You back off, and then you push some more.
Would tap out more words, but drinking.
As previously stated, hotter girls are turning 18 19 20 21 every day. At midnight, more are on the come up. Several other are hitting the wall. I don't play LMR games. I can fap on pornhub and expell far less injury without a rapey accusations.
Again, i lead, she follows or next. Smash or next is the benchmark. Any sort of ambiguity, i take my **** out. I screenshot texts, nudes and anything else if she is a psycho bpd. I am not playing. My **** won't suck itself.
