"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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first date: I started to kiss her and make out with her, my hands went into her panties, she says I'm going to fast. I stop and try again and she said it like 5 times. I stopped 5 times. Any ways to overcome that?

She also says that I like to kiss her a lot. how to respond to this?
She also says I like to touch her a lot. how to respond to this?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Down Low

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You gotta first get that deep stare into her eyes until she gets goose bumps and says "whoooo." Then her panties, pvssy, and mind are yours for the taking.

Goose bumps first, anal rape second.
 
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Fly By Night

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It's quite simple... You're going too fast.

Read up on escalation. Don't go from kissing to reaching down her pants. Try stroking her legs, lifting her shirt a little, grabbing her ass. When you jump gaps, you start to seem outcome dependent.

Live in the moment and build your way forward. Don't try to rush to the goal.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The girl will let you know when she is ready. It's your job to interpret her signs.

In my opinion, this is what separates men who are good with woman and those who are great.

Usually two "no's" is enough. Don't push past that.
 
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Not all girls are sluts, some don't want to jump to heavy petting and sex right away. I know this idea is shocking to some, but it is true.
 
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