"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Girls says I'm going to fast

mustfirstregister

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first date: I started to kiss her and make out with her, my hands went into her panties, she says I'm going to fast. I stop and try again and she said it like 5 times. I stopped 5 times. Any ways to overcome that?

She also says that I like to kiss her a lot. how to respond to this?
She also says I like to touch her a lot. how to respond to this?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Down Low

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You gotta first get that deep stare into her eyes until she gets goose bumps and says "whoooo." Then her panties, pvssy, and mind are yours for the taking.

Goose bumps first, anal rape second.
 

Fly By Night

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It's quite simple... You're going too fast.

Read up on escalation. Don't go from kissing to reaching down her pants. Try stroking her legs, lifting her shirt a little, grabbing her ass. When you jump gaps, you start to seem outcome dependent.

Live in the moment and build your way forward. Don't try to rush to the goal.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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JumpOff

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The girl will let you know when she is ready. It's your job to interpret her signs.

In my opinion, this is what separates men who are good with woman and those who are great.

Usually two "no's" is enough. Don't push past that.
 

TillTheEndOfTime

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Not all girls are sluts, some don't want to jump to heavy petting and sex right away. I know this idea is shocking to some, but it is true.
 
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