"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Girl's say "They can't figure you out"?

Absolutely

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Hi, I've been a reader periodically, but I've never really had much to post.

Here's my question:

I've had a few girls the past few days say that they "Can't quite figure me out", is this a good thing? I would like to think I act genuine, truthful, and that I am quite the gentleman at times. I can't decide if this is the response I'm looking for, has anyone had similar situations?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Amw406

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That is one of the best compliments a girl can give you. That means you are interesting. Keep up what ever you are doing
 

gaspipe

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Exactly. Keep doing what you are doing. Your on the right track.
 

PDubb75

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Absolutely said:
Hi, I've been a reader periodically, but I've never really had much to post.

Here's my question:

I've had a few girls the past few days say that they "Can't quite figure me out", is this a good thing? I would like to think I act genuine, truthful, and that I am quite the gentleman at times. I can't decide if this is the response I'm looking for, has anyone had similar situations?
I've had 2 girls tell me this recently. Coincidentally, they both call me multiple times a week wanting to come fvck me. If a girl can't figure you out, shes gonna fvck you every possible way until she does. Enjoy the ride and don't change a thing!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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st_99

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its another way of saying you're interesting. yes, its a good thing.
 
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