"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Girl's say "They can't figure you out"?

Absolutely

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Hi, I've been a reader periodically, but I've never really had much to post.

Here's my question:

I've had a few girls the past few days say that they "Can't quite figure me out", is this a good thing? I would like to think I act genuine, truthful, and that I am quite the gentleman at times. I can't decide if this is the response I'm looking for, has anyone had similar situations?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Amw406

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That is one of the best compliments a girl can give you. That means you are interesting. Keep up what ever you are doing
 

gaspipe

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Exactly. Keep doing what you are doing. Your on the right track.
 

PDubb75

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Absolutely said:
Hi, I've been a reader periodically, but I've never really had much to post.

Here's my question:

I've had a few girls the past few days say that they "Can't quite figure me out", is this a good thing? I would like to think I act genuine, truthful, and that I am quite the gentleman at times. I can't decide if this is the response I'm looking for, has anyone had similar situations?
I've had 2 girls tell me this recently. Coincidentally, they both call me multiple times a week wanting to come fvck me. If a girl can't figure you out, shes gonna fvck you every possible way until she does. Enjoy the ride and don't change a thing!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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st_99

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its another way of saying you're interesting. yes, its a good thing.
 
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