"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Girl's say "They can't figure you out"?

Absolutely

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Hi, I've been a reader periodically, but I've never really had much to post.

Here's my question:

I've had a few girls the past few days say that they "Can't quite figure me out", is this a good thing? I would like to think I act genuine, truthful, and that I am quite the gentleman at times. I can't decide if this is the response I'm looking for, has anyone had similar situations?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Amw406

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That is one of the best compliments a girl can give you. That means you are interesting. Keep up what ever you are doing
 

gaspipe

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Exactly. Keep doing what you are doing. Your on the right track.
 

PDubb75

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Absolutely said:
Hi, I've been a reader periodically, but I've never really had much to post.

Here's my question:

I've had a few girls the past few days say that they "Can't quite figure me out", is this a good thing? I would like to think I act genuine, truthful, and that I am quite the gentleman at times. I can't decide if this is the response I'm looking for, has anyone had similar situations?
I've had 2 girls tell me this recently. Coincidentally, they both call me multiple times a week wanting to come fvck me. If a girl can't figure you out, shes gonna fvck you every possible way until she does. Enjoy the ride and don't change a thing!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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its another way of saying you're interesting. yes, its a good thing.
 
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