"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Girls playfully slapping back

Southbound29

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When I'm getting into the heavy flirting stage with a girl, I will occasionally slap them on the butt only if we're alone or out of sight of others In public. I've never had a girl react negatively to it.

What puzzles me is I have recently had 2 that still smiled and giggled but they said "staaaaaap!" In their high pitched giddy tone and playfully slapped me on the shoulder very lightly.

Normally I'd just roll with it and not think twice, but the first chick that had this exact same reaction seemed to kind of cool down a little a few days after. Usually when a chick play hits me without me doing so first, I consider it a heavy ioi but I'm wondering if them playfully retaliating carries the same weight as the former.

Im sure I'm thinking about it too much but I'm curious about others experiences with this.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I enjoy slapping s€xy asses, letting them know that i needed to verify if it's tight or too loose.

It always raises an eyebrow coupled with an expectation.

Take it from there...
 

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Them reacting playfully and saying to stop is almost an impulsive reaction since they don't want to come off as skanky. I don't take it seriously at all.
 

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It requires a certain amount of tact to be properly executed. However, almost all women will play the game if you play with them. I recommend all men to slap their womans ass, grab her nipples , bite her butt, spank her, etc etc. I havent found one woman who doesn't love a man that knows how to be playful. But like I said, it has to be tactful...
 

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Totally agree Roober. But for the fans at home who are on the spectrum let's make it clear that all of that isn't on the first date. Well not if it's in public anyway.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ubercat

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Although I have got away with the odd public spanking. But that was back in the day before #metoo

Don't think I would have the cajones these days
 
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