"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Girls playfully slapping back

Southbound29

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When I'm getting into the heavy flirting stage with a girl, I will occasionally slap them on the butt only if we're alone or out of sight of others In public. I've never had a girl react negatively to it.

What puzzles me is I have recently had 2 that still smiled and giggled but they said "staaaaaap!" In their high pitched giddy tone and playfully slapped me on the shoulder very lightly.

Normally I'd just roll with it and not think twice, but the first chick that had this exact same reaction seemed to kind of cool down a little a few days after. Usually when a chick play hits me without me doing so first, I consider it a heavy ioi but I'm wondering if them playfully retaliating carries the same weight as the former.

Im sure I'm thinking about it too much but I'm curious about others experiences with this.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Spaz

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I enjoy slapping s€xy asses, letting them know that i needed to verify if it's tight or too loose.

It always raises an eyebrow coupled with an expectation.

Take it from there...
 

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Them reacting playfully and saying to stop is almost an impulsive reaction since they don't want to come off as skanky. I don't take it seriously at all.
 

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It requires a certain amount of tact to be properly executed. However, almost all women will play the game if you play with them. I recommend all men to slap their womans ass, grab her nipples , bite her butt, spank her, etc etc. I havent found one woman who doesn't love a man that knows how to be playful. But like I said, it has to be tactful...
 

ubercat

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Totally agree Roober. But for the fans at home who are on the spectrum let's make it clear that all of that isn't on the first date. Well not if it's in public anyway.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ubercat

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Although I have got away with the odd public spanking. But that was back in the day before #metoo

Don't think I would have the cajones these days
 
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