"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Girl's perspective on going out to bars & clubs

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Thanks for the link. This does increase the importance of what i think many guys including myself forget.

GET EYE CONTACT! yeah you can approach anyone whenever you want, but getting eye contact can help you in a BIG way. I'm currently experimenting with this, as I'm one of those guys who doesn't do much eye contact.
 
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Demonicale said:
Thanks for the link. This does increase the importance of what i think many guys including myself forget.

GET EYE CONTACT! yeah you can approach anyone whenever you want, but getting eye contact can help you in a BIG way. I'm currently experimenting with this, as I'm one of those guys who doesn't do much eye contact.
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I can't stress this enough, eye contact in clubs is just pure win. If it lasts, if you smile and get a smile, its just perfect to walk up and say hey. Just remember it needs to look natural, not forced and not like you've been eyeing her up all night. Give a cheeky smile, a flirty one, I sometimes give a little laugh to myself when I can tell there interested, its intimidating and makes you more desirable.

Back to the original post. Girls go to clubs and bars just like guys, the aim of the night is to have fun with friends and have a good laugh. Meeting a cute guy or girl is just a bonus. If your going out with the intention of pulling it puts a dampener on the whole night.
 
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