“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Girl's perspective on going out to bars & clubs

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Demonicale

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Thanks for the link. This does increase the importance of what i think many guys including myself forget.

GET EYE CONTACT! yeah you can approach anyone whenever you want, but getting eye contact can help you in a BIG way. I'm currently experimenting with this, as I'm one of those guys who doesn't do much eye contact.
 

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Demonicale said:
Thanks for the link. This does increase the importance of what i think many guys including myself forget.

GET EYE CONTACT! yeah you can approach anyone whenever you want, but getting eye contact can help you in a BIG way. I'm currently experimenting with this, as I'm one of those guys who doesn't do much eye contact.
I can't stress this enough, eye contact in clubs is just pure win. If it lasts, if you smile and get a smile, its just perfect to walk up and say hey. Just remember it needs to look natural, not forced and not like you've been eyeing her up all night. Give a cheeky smile, a flirty one, I sometimes give a little laugh to myself when I can tell there interested, its intimidating and makes you more desirable.

Back to the original post. Girls go to clubs and bars just like guys, the aim of the night is to have fun with friends and have a good laugh. Meeting a cute guy or girl is just a bonus. If your going out with the intention of pulling it puts a dampener on the whole night.
 
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