"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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Girls perspective on getting into relationship

wudiez

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Just curious,
i have many girls tell me.. about there relatinoshisp all time.

this is how it goes.

Met this guy through friends at club/resteraunt/gym etc.
Started talking, going club/resteraunt/gym together. Then one day he took me out to resteraunt/movie/theatre, then started talking on the phone alot, messaging each other.

Then they end up going out, then become official. Guy asks the girl out, they have good relationship??

Is it really as simple as this? Can any of you guys interpret what these girls are saying about their realtinoships?

To me it sounds like, guy meets girl, guy likes girl, guy goes for, girl, treats her nice, calls her. Guy gets girl??

If it was as easy as this?? Why do we have a site.

I'm not stating anything hear, like saying it is as easy? But does anyone have further insight on this?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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wudiez

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you think its cause the guy is really good looking??? Coz its a fact that these girls were attracted to their guys from the start?? Or do you think.. the guy.. portrayed all the right.. characterisitcs that got them attracted???

and then kept it up.. to keep them attracted..

apparantly you have to treat a girl nice.. adn at the same time.. be c&f to her *****niess...
 

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Originally posted by wudiez
you think its cause the guy is really good looking??? Coz its a fact that these girls were attracted to their guys from the start?? Or do you think.. the guy.. portrayed all the right.. characterisitcs that got them attracted???

and then kept it up.. to keep them attracted..

apparantly you have to treat a girl nice.. adn at the same time.. be c&f to her *****niess...
Looks are important, I don't care what anyone says. However, I think you need to show charisma and personality qualities that will keep the woman interested.
 
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