"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Just curious,
i have many girls tell me.. about there relatinoshisp all time.

this is how it goes.

Met this guy through friends at club/resteraunt/gym etc.
Started talking, going club/resteraunt/gym together. Then one day he took me out to resteraunt/movie/theatre, then started talking on the phone alot, messaging each other.

Then they end up going out, then become official. Guy asks the girl out, they have good relationship??

Is it really as simple as this? Can any of you guys interpret what these girls are saying about their realtinoships?

To me it sounds like, guy meets girl, guy likes girl, guy goes for, girl, treats her nice, calls her. Guy gets girl??

If it was as easy as this?? Why do we have a site.

I'm not stating anything hear, like saying it is as easy? But does anyone have further insight on this?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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you think its cause the guy is really good looking??? Coz its a fact that these girls were attracted to their guys from the start?? Or do you think.. the guy.. portrayed all the right.. characterisitcs that got them attracted???

and then kept it up.. to keep them attracted..

apparantly you have to treat a girl nice.. adn at the same time.. be c&f to her *****niess...
 
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Originally posted by wudiez
you think its cause the guy is really good looking??? Coz its a fact that these girls were attracted to their guys from the start?? Or do you think.. the guy.. portrayed all the right.. characterisitcs that got them attracted???

and then kept it up.. to keep them attracted..

apparantly you have to treat a girl nice.. adn at the same time.. be c&f to her *****niess...
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Looks are important, I don't care what anyone says. However, I think you need to show charisma and personality qualities that will keep the woman interested.
 
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