"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Girls over an 8 are spoiled
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Who Dares Win
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A girl who was fat during her teens and experiences being ignored or being held accountable for her mistake then got in shape till becoming a 9 is surely more pleasable to deal with than a girl whos been a 8 for all her life.
Personality depends on how you are made and on how you've been treated in your life, an average girl which has been treated like a queen is gonna be a much bigger pain in the ass than a goodlooking girl which has been treated as anyone else, thats why foreign girls sometime are more pleasable to deal with than western ones.
Mike32ct
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^This.PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
I generally agree with the OP but also thought that the threshold should be lowered to 7ish.
LondonTowers
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I see way too much focus on girls attitudes on this forum. Focus on your own attitude. You'll quickly see how the world, including girls shape themselves around it.
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You mean that if I go to a 9, make my way around the richer,taller guys around her and open with "my shirts aint gonna iron themselves" Im gonna get her?LondonTowers said:
No seriously I understand your point and is partially true but to give no weight to the attitude of a girl thinking your frame is like the one of saint micheal shining from the sky and blinding everyone around doesnt work either.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
apprenticedj
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:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:Who Dares Win said:
My new pickup line! Might alter it to say "my sandwiches aren't going to make themselves".
Uncharted
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I know a guy who is dating a 3/4 and he's probably an 8. Not sure what he is thinking. He usually gets girls that are way hotter than his girlfriend. He "likes her personality". What?PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
pyros
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When I met the guy I could not believe he liked to f-uck my female friend...shouldnt he be banging 8s? its seems not.
Anyway, I created this post cause in my experience the majority of girls I've met who were around an 8 or more had an attitude. They thought they were queens and princesses, were selfish, egocentric, spoiled and had had a lot of sexual parterns...etc.
So I think I should not try to find a gf who's more than a 7 or 7.5. Hotter girls ignore me so its ok anyway XD.
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It seems the women that are 6's-7's are more prone to getting an ego. Guys see them are more approachable so they become used to being chased, and they're the ones you see trying to coast their way through life because of their looks. They're also the ones that will say garbage how they look better than all the hot female celebrities.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
