Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
^This.PairPlusRoyalFlush said:7 and over, too many thirsty guys willing to date down and bang even further down.
You mean that if I go to a 9, make my way around the richer,taller guys around her and open with "my shirts aint gonna iron themselves" Im gonna get her?LondonTowers said:Who cares. A DJ is spoiled for choice.
I see way too much focus on girls attitudes on this forum. Focus on your own attitude. You'll quickly see how the world, including girls shape themselves around it.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:Who Dares Win said:"my shirts aint gonna iron themselves"
I know a guy who is dating a 3/4 and he's probably an 8. Not sure what he is thinking. He usually gets girls that are way hotter than his girlfriend. He "likes her personality". What?PairPlusRoyalFlush said:7 and over, too many thirsty guys willing to date down and bang even further down. Im always AMAZED at some of the guys my exes are able to snag, even though I thought I was dating down.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.