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Don Juan
Girls or betas? These days I'd rather (do) prefer working/hanging around with girls then I do with these beta males. Anyone else feel the same?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Dragon Blood +1, you just spoke hot fire there. I couldn't have said it better, hard to believe that being ourselves is just kicking back and being a cool mofo that girls love, but betas envy. That last line you put too, you took the thoughts out my mind and typed them right up.DragonBlood said:Oh yeah I feel the same way. I know this sites all about the ABCs but I completely agree.
At first I use to tolerate beta negativity and boring (if non-existent) conversation with guys like this. Cant quite escape that feeling that they are a bit too hot under the collar to trust. Hard to hold a conversation with and easily offended. Every time you DO manage to open a beta it always goes the same way, them telling you how depressed they are and how unfair the world is bla bla blah. meh.
I much prefer girls even just for company as I can relax and be myself. Even the worst of them doesnt give you as hard a time as a group of awkward betas. I dont have to put on a show and guard my true beliefs.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I have really given up on trying to do so! I do believe that naturals are naturals, and trying to Game aware them is in fact useless, since they know it by nature.They are faggots. Try to enlighten them and they get offended...
Its like telling someone their religion is bullsh!t. Totally useless.
You answered yr own question in that reply, we all have AFC friends and if surrounding ourselves with people that were on, or above our lvl, was easy, this forum probably never would have come into existence. This post was made because of the difficulty in doing just that, too many severe beta bucks out there. I wouldn't gossip about that (whatever Usweekly is) with women either, but they're easier to chat with. And when does speaking to women not invlove seduction? It always will on some BASE lvlWC2 said:Why would you hang around with either?
Sure, I love hanging with women as long as I'm seducing them in some sort of way. Doesn't mean I need take them to bed, but I'm sure as sh!t not gossiping about the latest issue of Usweekly.
Listen, all of us have AFC friends. They can be great buddies when the going gets rough. But if you want to grow as a person, surround yourself with people on your level or above your level.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.