Girl's Opinions

[jon3947]

I think that the sosuave service should hire several women to give their opinions, then we will get the right answer from the people we want, instead of a bunch of guys opinions.

 

[Mavrick]

Um, women don't know what they want. They'll say something, but respond to something totally different.

 

[jon3947]

the mods could get women who are honest and know what to answer

 

[MotownMack]

I think that the sosuave service should hire several women to give their opinions, then we will get the right answer from the people we want, instead of a bunch of guys opinions.

Complete garbage.

The whole premise of many of these methods is that attraction is not a choice and half the time, girls don't know why are really attracted to in a guy.

Ask you're average girl, and she'll describe an AFC through about 90% of the way. But most of them wouldn't touch an AFC with a 10 foot pole, and if they do, they aren't thrilled with the relationship or they'll get bored and move on.

On a few basic things, their opinions can be of value. Many of them can identify some very basic elements of their attraction- confidence, height, financial stability, or in some cases what they don't want - e.g., really needy guys, controlling guys, etc.

But the fact is, all of the advice you will get from women is usually very generic and will be of a little use to you, if not flat out wrong. They are often conflicted and remain attracted or with men that are completely wrong for them, far removed from what they'd describe intellectually.

FYI-there are other sites, for example dating sites, that have forums, and I have experienced it first hand. Reading post after post of girls giving bad advice on what to do to attract a woman in a given situation (or what women want), that is completely contrary to my own personal experience. I spent about a year in the forums of one such site, so I consider myself to be somewhat of an authority-at least in terms of the poor advice I'd seem disseminated there. Why do you think I am here?

Some women do get it and will occasionally give decent advice. But I can tell you it's far from the majority. And it got tiresome listening to the ones who don't get it acting like they were experts just because they were girls.

Look at it this way-at best, a girl can only truly know what attracts her - that's a sample of one. Guys like those on this forum, can tell you what attracts and goes on in the mind of most girls.

 

[jon3947]

ur right girls would only give generic stuff and say they like the afc