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I hear a lot of guys talk/brag about the number of girls they have slept with but am curious about promiscuous girls. No one ever discusses this but I think some cluster B sloots must have crazy high numbers.

The best guys I know were my two roommates in college who were over 100 girls by graduation, but then married right out of school. I could only imagine if these guys stayed single and kept that pace, they probably hit 300 by age 30 (this was pre-tender and no escorts/etc). I think girls probably have higher numbers, especially ClusterB hotties. But this isn't often discussed.

We all agree that it's easier for girls to get laid. An HB9 can literally go out any night of the week and get laid, conversely a male HB9 often strikes out.

I am curious if anyone here has some best info on girls numbers. Obviously, girls don't want to be known as sloots so keep secret. But I assume sloots must have some crazy high numbers after age 25. Particularly the Cluster B types that are never in LTR but constantly finding new men/out partying. Also, bartender girls and girls on tinder.....(which may be bpd/hpd anyway)

Secondly, who wants to wife-up a girl that has been plowed by so many guys and as Desdinova points out 'girls over 26 with a high number of partners are less able to pair bond.' I think that is both a chemical and a mental thing. I know I would hate running into wife's ex's everywhere.

Has anyone gotten an honest answer from an older ClusterB sloot (over 26) or somehow snooped their email to get a real idea.

http://www.psychforums.com/histrionic-personality/topic46296.html
This is interesting thread on Cluster B's high numbers and lying to their husbands about it. One hpd is over 100 but told husband she was a sweet girl and only 8. I imagine this is typical of hpd/bpd since they need sex from different/new guys for validation and they can't stay in a LTR. Plus they are usually hot/flirty with lots of guy friends so it's incredible easy. That forum is filled with guys who are shocked to learn their hpd girl is cheating with her ex, her neighbor, her trainer, her coworkers, etc. It's possible some of these closet sluts could be over 500 by age 30, which would be sleeping with a different guy every 11 days for 15 years.

My guess is the average 30 yearold hot Cluster B has ~100 partners but will tell people her number is under 10.
 

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where i live id say 70% of single females between the age's of 16 & 40 are looking to get laid at least once week

women have become so comfortable with the notion of casual sex and dont forget its 10X more exciting for a woman to sleep with a new man because each one will have different techniques / d1ck size so be under no illusion that a vast majoirty of modern women are getting a lot of sex

i dont go to the clubs every weekend but when i do i see chicks hooking up with guys everywhere and i dont usually have much trouble getting some pu$$y

remember they dont spend a fortune on hair/ makeup/underwear/clothes/shoes just to go home alone

i would be shocked to hear of a woman on less than 10 men these days
 

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I never ask because I couldn't care less.

Whatever number she says it is, I would multiply it by 3.
 
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where i live id say 70% of single females between the age's of 16 & 40 are looking to get laid at least once week

i dont go to the clubs every weekend but when i do i see chicks hooking up with guys everywhere and i dont usually have much trouble getting some pu$$y
meaning sex in general once a week....or sex with someone new once a week? I think some sloots actually get 3-4 new guys a month in my area.

I live in city with MSA over 8 million and yes the clubs are full of people hooking up and it is easy for guy to get laid, but comically easy for a hottie. You can find a club with 100+ people partying/bottle service any night of the week.

Urban life also leads to promiscuous life. If you were in a small college or small town, girl might be sloot shamed as people realize what she is doing. But when there are 200 different clubs, you can easily never see someone again. Or in the case of Cluster B's, you could lead multiple lives and go out with different guy each day of the week without them never knowing.
 

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Don't know... don't care. I never ask, sometimes women will ask me and I will ALWAYS say "Well can't you tell, you don't get this good without a lot of practice... I always assumed your number is in the hundreds... you're that good, lets go get some more practice, there's a couple of things I haven't shown you yet."

This turns what could be an awkward moment into something sexual and fun. She usually asks you sh!t like this because she thinks you might be a weak @ss b!tch and worry about her number... this tells her you don't care... which makes her more comfortable and fun.
 

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Well there was a thread about virgins/low mileage girl being wife/ltr material.

In the end, who cares how much. It's the number of guys "after/during" who matters.

It's not a question I bring. If she ask, i tell her, but don't ask back
 

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This is why im never getting married. All women are sluts and 120% sure to cheat if the husband isn't charismatic enough.
 

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Women aren't men though, and like you guys figured out, it would be easy for many women to have 500 partners by the age of 30, that most don't do it. It's not necessarily due to slvt shaming either. Some nights they waste all that money to look sexy to feel good about THEMSELVES, and also to IMPRESS and COMPETE with their female friends.

Plus many of them like to c0ck tease, so you might see one you think is the biggest slvt in the world, half naked going out, flirty, etc, and she talks a lot of game. But her pleasure is in teasing, getting attention and c0ck teasing guys. There is a lot of women like that.

If all women were like men, there would be so many who have racked up 10,000 partners by the age of 45, it would not be that hard if they were so inclined.
 

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TWO roommates had 100 girls each? Did they throw you some scraps?

Why would someone who can have any girl sleep with 100 women? People who brag about sleeping with 100 women obviously have no standards. I haven't known 100 gorgeous women in my life, nor have I ever done a fattie.
 

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Meanwhile, if you had one sweet girl who it turns out was with 60 men, and one primadonna a-hole who was only with 6 men, who would you choose?

If all women were like men, there would be so many who have racked up 10,000 partners by the age of 45, it would not be that hard if they were so inclined.
That would be 333 men per year for 30 years.

I slept with 35 women and frankly, it was too much. Now I can't pair bond.
 

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Mr GoodStuff - great point, even the slootiest cluster b still is a female and might be teasing more than actually banging. And you're right, girls waste plenty of nights doing girl stuff.

BigNeal - I think for every time they threw me a bone, they were as many more times I competed and lost. They really didn't brag too much but it was well known. Guys were face jocks who didn't mind asking every cute girl they saw to hang out. Picked up girls in parking lots, stores, anywhere and everywhere. Mostly good looking.

Anyway, I still think we might be surprised by "good girls" with very high numbers (over 20).
 

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I have never asked a woman this, and I have never been asked.

If I were, I'd say "More than one and less that 1000"
 

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Meanwhile, if you had one sweet girl who it turns out was with 60 men, and one primadonna a-hole who was only with 6 men, who would you choose?


That would be 333 men per year for 30 years.

I slept with 35 women and frankly, it was too much. Now I can't pair bond.
333 men per year is no hard feat for a woman. They can do several in a day. These can be 15 minute conjugations, no one said each encounter has to be an orgasm. So say they did 3 a day approximates to 1,000 per year, which is not hard for a female. It would take her 10 years to hit 10,000 men.
 

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Meanwhile, if you had one sweet girl who it turns out was with 60 men, and one primadonna a-hole who was only with 6 men, who would you choose?


That would be 333 men per year for 30 years.

I slept with 35 women and frankly, it was too much. Now I can't pair bond.
Take for what?

A wife? **** marriage. I take neither and keep my sanity.

But either for a ****.
 

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My ex wife is 40 and remarried. We talk like civil exes due to our child. A year or two ago she told me that she had only slept with me and her new hubby. I have no reason to doubt her. So 2 x guys at age 40.

To another extreme, with my ex that I married but didn't marry (the bigamist, long story) , age 40 now, we never discussed numbers. But her son who is now 23 and hates her guts once said that there was a time that it would be a new man with her 7 nights a week, over a long period of years.. He did some math right in front of me on a piece of paper and said he estimates she could have slept with 900 men.

Another ex, about age 32 now, we never discussed numbers either but when we first dated she once said "Guys have issues getting sex. Girls have issues getting good sex. I could get laid anytime I want, but I choose not to because its no good. I haven't had any in over a year"
 

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Just about all modern women over 18 have been with several men.

Unless a woman is a virgin, you will NEVER know her true sexual history. Looking for good "wife material" is really an impossible game. All women will act the part to get the job if that's what they want.

As I said in another thread.. I know a slutty woman I used to f*ck back in college who smashed just about all my male friends and a good amount of the campus. Today she is a "born again Christian" who is married to a beta provider. That fool probably thinks she has only been with one or two men.

You will NEVER know a woman's past or be able to tell if she is "wife material". If she wants you to believe she is wife material she will act the part. This is why I tell men that marriage is idiotic in 2016. But desperate, lonely betas who care about family pressure and social image will continue to do things that are bad for them in the long run. Not my problem.
 

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Just about all modern women over 18 have been with several men.

Unless a woman is a virgin, you will NEVER know her true sexual history. Looking for good "wife material" is really an impossible game. All women will act the part to get the job if that's what they want.

As I said in another thread.. I know a slutty woman I used to f*ck back in college who smashed just about all my male friends and a good amount of the campus. Today she is a "born again Christian" who is married to a beta provider. That fool probably thinks she has only been with one or two men.

You will NEVER know a woman's past or be able to tell if she is "wife material". If she wants you to believe she is wife material she will act the part. This is why I tell men that marriage is idiotic in 2016. But desperate, lonely betas who care about family pressure and social image will continue to do things that are bad for them in the long run. Not my problem.
Exactly. She can be the town "hor" and sleep with several partners. Then claim under the "guise" that she's now a "Born Again Christian." What it does for these women with their promiscuous past/end of their physical peak is they get a non-judgemental clean slate and settle down with some rich, white knight provider who will give her the world. Many female porn stars have done this and have no shame, whatsoever.
 

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Consider: there are 3 types of sperm:

1) Egg seeking sperm (we assume they are all this type but read on)
2) Wall building sperm (that keep other sperm out!)
3) Sperm seeking sperm (seek and destroy foreign sperm!)

Hmmm... I wonder how this system evolved if women weren't being gang-banged for Millennia? It turns out our great great grandmother (to the power of 10,000) was a train.
 

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Consider: there are 3 types of sperm:

1) Egg seeking sperm (we assume they are all this type but read on)
2) Wall building sperm (that keep other sperm out!)
3) Sperm seeking sperm (seek and destroy foreign sperm!)

Hmmm... I wonder how this system evolved if women weren't being gang-banged for Millennia? It turns out our great great grandmother (to the power of 10,000) was a train.
I don't think cave man wanted to share chicks. I don't think society at the time would've killed his natural instinct to protect and isolate the "*****" that he prefers.
 
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