girls not liking me anymore

[comic_relief]

No, I still got girls liking me

I mean a girl will approach me and start talking to me. I can tell she has high interest with me and is flirting.

I don't get the number because I have a girlfriend that I care for very deeply but now here is my question.

Why is it after the girl finds out that your hooked up or not interested that she will just leave you and never talk to you. She will act like you never exist and will most definitely not talk to you again. This has happened on multiple occasions even after we seem to be very far into the friendship zone. This happened maybe six to seven times a year but I am always hooked up with someone new.

I find this illogical because even after my ex-oneitis was gotten rid of from my mind. I still would talk to her all the time as a friend.

Is it impossible to be friends with girls that approach you? Are they only there for one reason and one reason only?

I just can't find it possible because all the girls I approach I am looking for a new friend and if she validates enough for me and shows that she is worthy of my attention to take out on a date. Then I will date her but not until after she shows validation other then looks.



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[GuitarOnFire]

Some girls are like guys in the sense that if they realize you're not interested in being their boyfriend, they'll simply move on eventually.

I'm still learning from the masters here, though.

 

[johnmich]

Thats what we do.

If not interested then NEXT

am i right? Although some DJs will C+F this comment.

 

[comic_relief]

Originally posted by johnmich
Thats what we do.

If not interested then NEXT

am i right? Although some DJs will C+F this comment.

I don't do that though. I go to a girl as a person who wants to start a friendship and then if she shows me validation within the first three times of meeting then i will ask her out. She has to impress me, not the other way around.

I guess cultivating friendships in most people's mind is not something they truely want to do.

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[KaminoSS]

women are more shallow than men....