"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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No, I still got girls liking me ;)

I mean a girl will approach me and start talking to me. I can tell she has high interest with me and is flirting.

I don't get the number because I have a girlfriend that I care for very deeply but now here is my question.

Why is it after the girl finds out that your hooked up or not interested that she will just leave you and never talk to you. She will act like you never exist and will most definitely not talk to you again. This has happened on multiple occasions even after we seem to be very far into the friendship zone. This happened maybe six to seven times a year but I am always hooked up with someone new.

I find this illogical because even after my ex-oneitis was gotten rid of from my mind. I still would talk to her all the time as a friend.

Is it impossible to be friends with girls that approach you? Are they only there for one reason and one reason only?

I just can't find it possible because all the girls I approach I am looking for a new friend and if she validates enough for me and shows that she is worthy of my attention to take out on a date. Then I will date her but not until after she shows validation other then looks.

:confused:

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Some girls are like guys in the sense that if they realize you're not interested in being their boyfriend, they'll simply move on eventually.

I'm still learning from the masters here, though. :cool:
 
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Thats what we do.

If not interested then NEXT

am i right? Although some DJs will C+F this comment.
 
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Originally posted by johnmich
Thats what we do.

If not interested then NEXT

am i right? Although some DJs will C+F this comment.
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I don't do that though. I go to a girl as a person who wants to start a friendship and then if she shows me validation within the first three times of meeting then i will ask her out. She has to impress me, not the other way around.

I guess cultivating friendships in most people's mind is not something they truely want to do.

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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