“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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nan3109

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Do you guys care if you had a g/f of 1 year who had a girls night out which involved drinking before going to a dance club?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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nope what for? if you dont trust your girl you might as not be with her.

but when i have the boys night out, i wouldnt want my girl know what i did, as she wouldnt like it :)
 

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i think im just jealous because i dont have anyone to go to a party/club with for a guys night out because my friends are all becoming druggies and i need new friends
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Find new friends. Don't become a jealous AFC just because you aren't hanging out with your old clique. Find a few cooler people to hang with and your concern about your gf will diminish.
 

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too hard to make friends in community college, no sports to join until this summer..... all the clubs are for nerds (school ones) and it's too hard to make friends with people in class because you see them maybe 1 or 2 times a week. Also, if you asked a guy to hang out after class or something (for his number) he would think i was a queer or something. What should I do? Their aint NO WAY i can make friends! I'm starting a job as a pizza delivery guy but all the guys there devote 100% of their time to their job or their losers and dont do anything (clubbing, partying, etc.)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Alright, just give up on any social life while you are in college. There is no way what so ever to meet new people even though you are surrounded by people everyday. Also, no matter who you approach they will judge you and question your motives.

People with jobs obviously don't spend their money on anything other than rent and food so what's the point of doing anything else?

Anyone in a club in school is considered a nerd too, stay away from any of the women in the theater, finance or political clubs. There are too many nerds in those clubs that pull the honeys, how could you ever compete with that?

Besides, who wants to join a club that will assist them in finding a successful career after graduation, we've already established that people with jobs only spend their money on rent and food. Why bother.

You're right. There is no way YOU will be able to make any friends. :rolleyes:
 
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